depressed17 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 (edited) Hello, As some of you know i have been struggling. I been with a man for 17 years and counting, birth four children yet still not married despite all of my heart to heart out crying. .... well, I would not give in on the topic since my last post and he finally told me that, he do not want to marry me than cheat, after all he may want to at least Try something else (have sex with someone else) before considering marriage. .. He also said that because he is being honest i should not with hold sex, or any thing else that i have been doing Within the last 17 years because he could of just did it or lied about it.. Please tell me what you all think about his nerve. I think that I want out even more now and i have lost all sexual desires for him at this point. ..... Talk to me people , it is hard for me to think rational and or not be bias. Do not hold anything back, say what ever you think.......??????? Thank You, -depressed17 Edited September 22, 2015 by depressed17 miss spelling Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 It's past time for you to leave. Think about what your decision to stay says to your children. To me it says you don't value yourself & it's OK for one person to walk all over the other in a relationship. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 Why do you want to marry a man who doesn't want to marry you? He's made it perfectly clear he's not marrying you. If that is your wish then leave him and find a partner that has the same goals as you do. You can file for support money. Do you work/earn wages of your own? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Lois_Griffin Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 Why would he marry you now? He's had all the benefits of marriage for the last 17 years because you happily gave it to him. As long as you were willing to give freely, he took freely. Why would you have kids with someone who doesn't think you're marriage-worthy? Never have any man's kids who thinks that way about you. If you're not good enough to marry, then you're certainly not good enough to spit out 4 of his illegitimate kids. Sounds like he's ready to go out and sow more of his wild oats. What a charmer you've got there. I wouldn't spit on this guy if he were on fire, much less have a bunch of his kids or wash his underwear. He's sounds repulsive. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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