As the weather changes..

[CT98]

and we head into Autumn, I'm reminded of how terrible I felt this time last year.

 

The other day marked a year since my relationship ended.

 

I feel so much happier now, and I've grown a lot as a person. I'm truly grateful for the break up; it's allowed me to make changes to my life I wouldn't have otherwise. I've expanded my social circle, got myself into better financial & emotional shape, and learnt a lot about love & life.

 

I've let go of all the anger, sadness, disappointment & loss, and I'm looking forward to a bright future.

 

I've not had a word from my ex since the day she dumped me by letter, and even if she came begging for me back I'd turn her down.

 

You'll get to where I am as well, but you need help yourself.

 

Stick to NC religiously.

Exercise.

Post all you need to here.

 

But most of all recognise that you are going to be - not just fine - but happier than you ever were before. Try and see this as an opportunity to improve areas of your life that could do with it, and face your fears and embrace what life has to offer you next.

 

Everyone here is behind you.

[paddlingduck]

This is such a lovely positive message! ? thank you!