GingerVixen Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 What would you think of a guy who has been dating your work colleague for 4 months, and at a party, while she is in the toilet, he starts flirting with you constantly ?? This guys has done this - and he used to flirt with me, and I used to flirt back before, when I didn't know he was dating - then I was at this party and I found out he was dating that girl and then started flirting with me, which I found ridiculous. What would you do in my shoes? a) Bang him - the girl is not even my friend and if I find him hot... I will do that b) Ignore him - ridiculous guy flirting while his date is around c) Ignore him and tell the girl she is dating one major womanizer. I would never ever choose A. I'm in doubt between B and C. Help. I'm tired of this situation. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JS84 Posted September 22, 2015 Share Posted September 22, 2015 B. C most likely isn't going to get you anywhere. Especially if you can't back it up with evidence. If the guy is a womanizer and the woman is in the relationship with eyes wide shut she either won't be inclined to believe you, he'll be able to talk his way out of if, or both. Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 I'd actually blue-ball him to death. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Use him to stroke my ego & practice my flirting skills. Nevermind about him. You can't go there because she is a colleague & you have to deal with her at work in the morning. Not worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
JustGettingBy Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 B He's not worth your time. Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 You confuse me. You say option A is to bang him and if you found him hot you'd bang him, but then you say you never'd do option A. So are you saying you wouldn't do option A because you have actual principles and don't want to stoop to his level..or because you don't find him hot? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author GingerVixen Posted September 23, 2015 Author Share Posted September 23, 2015 You confuse me. You say option A is to bang him and if you found him hot you'd bang him, but then you say you never'd do option A. So are you saying you wouldn't do option A because you have actual principles and don't want to stoop to his level..or because you don't find him hot? I find him REALLY HOT. And the way he was flirting with me was hot as well. I'm not doing option A , though, for 2 reasons: 1. My principles. I wouldn't like anyone to do that to me, so I wouldn't do that to anyone either 2. If he did that to that girl, he would do that to me one day. I'm not here for that. Link to post Share on other sites
Space Ritual Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 What would you think of a guy who has been dating your work colleague for 4 months, and at a party, while she is in the toilet, he starts flirting with you constantly ?? I'd think he was not unlike the majority of guys or girls who would flirt unabashedly while their SO was in the can for no other reason than the opportunity presented itself and they could. He is no different from most of us. Give us an inch and we'll take a mile. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 You confuse me. You say option A is to bang him and if you found him hot you'd bang him, but then you say you never'd do option A. So are you saying you wouldn't do option A because you have actual principles and don't want to stoop to his level..or because you don't find him hot? She threw that in there to get people's attention.....I found it amusing. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Jinx01 Posted October 1, 2015 Share Posted October 1, 2015 I'd flirt back. I like my ego being stroked, unless he tried to involve me in drama or actually bang me. Then I might make him back off. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Jacobclassified Posted October 1, 2015 Share Posted October 1, 2015 Why would you want to "bang" a guy like that? It has crossed your mind or you wouldn't of taken the time to post it on here. They guy is a dog. Have some self respect and avoid him. Do the girl a solid and let her know about his behavior towards other women. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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