Author Confusedovo Posted October 10, 2015 Author Share Posted October 10, 2015 I've not blocked him, but he's blocked me so why does it really matter? There's been no contact since that night. Link to post Share on other sites
Mrs. John Adams Posted October 10, 2015 Share Posted October 10, 2015 Because he can unblock you and send you a message....but if you block him he cannot contact you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
turnera Posted October 10, 2015 Share Posted October 10, 2015 I've not blocked him, but he's blocked me so why does it really matter? There's been no contact since that night.Because you've already proven that you WILL run back to him if he calls. And if you block HIM, you are mentally crossing over a line in the sand. Telling yourself that you deserve MORE than just table scraps from a married man, that you deserve to find a loving, fun, single guy your own age who will be crazy about you, pursue you relentlessly, shower you with gifts, and make you feel like the luckiest girl on the planet. NONE of that is possible with the OM. So we want you to fix things so that you control your weak boundaries and move on to a BETTER life. And blocking him from your contacts will be a strong PERSONAL message to yourself. It will HELP you be strong and be proud of yourself and resist temptation. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sandy43 Posted October 10, 2015 Share Posted October 10, 2015 Not sure why some of you are still acting like I'm still persuing him, cause I'm not. By you not blocking him says it all, you are willing to continue contact with him if he wants to. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted October 11, 2015 Share Posted October 11, 2015 Not sure why some of you are still acting like I'm still persuing him, cause I'm not. Because you still have the door open, at least mentally 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ChancesAre24 Posted October 12, 2015 Share Posted October 12, 2015 Why is he? The one in the marriage with the baby on the way. Such kind words. Thank you. Again...no I'm not playing naieve. I'm still confused about the situation. About his intentions, and what I should really do. That's going to fall on deaf ears yet again though... And again...I don't KNOW what his wife is OK with. I do not know. I don't know if she knows I exsist. I do not know. I'm sure she wouldn't be happy if we CHEATED no. Eye of the storm: I am going to tink about what you said. Thank you. These kind of posts I can respect. 1) You cannot possibly be confused about his intentions. Those are clear. He wants an affair with you. Therefore of course thats going to fall on deaf ears because its plainly not true. 2) Then don't cheat. Walk away from this guy and don't look back. You will do nothing but regret it once its over if you don't. 3) I understand you not wanting to hear these kinds of responses. I get it. I really do more than you know. This advice-some harsh and some not comes from broken hearts and people who have already made the mistake your about to make and OH MY GOD what we wouldn't do to go back and un make it because at the end of the day it HURTS . 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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