Leaa Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 (ex) Boyfriend and I were arguing a lot and took a break for 2 months, during those 2 months we still talked every day just gave each other some space. Things were going great until one day we got into a fight again. He said he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore and blocked me on everything (twitter, Facebook, snapchat, instagram). I was in complete shock and still very upset over it...it was only a week ago. Most of my stuff is private anyway but I never blocked him back, because I don't support the bad vibes. I don't care if he sees or knows what i'm doing. I think he blocked me so I wouldn't try and talk about it, he always hated talking about our "problems". I also feel like this was a very immature move on his part. I have no clue if he has tried to look at my stuff or not, it feels like he doesn't give a s*** about me anymore. But should I block him back to prove a point? Or keep him unblocked to prove a point? Link to post Share on other sites
casey.lives Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 i block my ex because i talk too much. it help me shut up. Do whatever.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leaa Posted September 23, 2015 Author Share Posted September 23, 2015 i talk too much too, he blocked me because i kept wanting to talk about things. I felt like I needed closure. But he already blocked me, so I have no choice to shut up. The only things that i'm getting out of not blocking him back is so he can creep on me if he wants, or unblock me and talk to me. idk. Link to post Share on other sites
Seth0194 Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 (ex) Boyfriend and I were arguing a lot and took a break for 2 months, during those 2 months we still talked every day just gave each other some space. Things were going great until one day we got into a fight again. He said he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore and blocked me on everything (twitter, Facebook, snapchat, instagram). I was in complete shock and still very upset over it...it was only a week ago. Most of my stuff is private anyway but I never blocked him back, because I don't support the bad vibes. I don't care if he sees or knows what i'm doing. I think he blocked me so I wouldn't try and talk about it, he always hated talking about our "problems". I also feel like this was a very immature move on his part. I have no clue if he has tried to look at my stuff or not, it feels like he doesn't give a s*** about me anymore. But should I block him back to prove a point? Or keep him unblocked to prove a point? If you are done and trying to move on, then block him keeps you from having to deal with any of it and lets you focus on healing yourself. I just went through something similar like this. (link if you wanna read) http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/549323-ex-found-me-gym-nc-3-weeks-broken If you think you might work it out, then no dont block that just shows you are playing games like he is. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Definitely block him but not to hurt him but to help you get over him. Do you want him back? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 To me blocking isn't so much about bad vibes. It's a matter of self protection. If you block him, you won't accidentally see his stuff & get upset. FWIW, this is why "breaks" make things worse not better. They are precursors to break ups used by people like your EX to determine if they can live without you. Either work together to talk about & resolved your difficulties, which he was unwilling to do or break up, which he did. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leaa Posted September 23, 2015 Author Share Posted September 23, 2015 I do want him back, I love him very very much and I still can't believe he could just cut me off so easily. We planned on moving in together this Fall, and we even wanted to get engaged within the year. I just don't want to block him just in case he wants to talk to me. I also don't want him to think i'm hiding, i want him to know i'm here with open arms. But at the same time is it unfair that he can see all my stuff but i can't see his? not sure. Link to post Share on other sites
quattrob Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 I do want him back, I love him very very much and I still can't believe he could just cut me off so easily. We planned on moving in together this Fall, and we even wanted to get engaged within the year. I just don't want to block him just in case he wants to talk to me. I also don't want him to think i'm hiding, i want him to know i'm here with open arms. But at the same time is it unfair that he can see all my stuff but i can't see his? not sure. You should just block him from all your social media, he has your number if he seriously really wanted to get back with you, it shouldn't be through social media anyways. He already knows you love him and want him back, you don't need to "let him know". Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Block him from social media but don't change your phone # Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 24, 2015 Share Posted September 24, 2015 I do want him back, I love him very very much and I still can't believe he could just cut me off so easily. We planned on moving in together this Fall, and we even wanted to get engaged within the year. I just don't want to block him just in case he wants to talk to me. I also don't want him to think i'm hiding, i want him to know i'm here with open arms. But at the same time is it unfair that he can see all my stuff but i can't see his? not sure. Why did you ask us "Should I block him back?" when you already know you aren't/don't want to block him? Link to post Share on other sites
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