Questions about "falling out of love" and has ne one gotten back together after this?

[kiwi2060]

i had the most amazing relationship, till the end, when he said he was not in love wit me nemore and things got too awkward and stuff. we didn't fight and he isn't interested in another girl i don't think.

 

those of u who have been thru either side of this, what would make someone "fall out of love" like that??? is it possible for the person to fall back in love? has this "falling back in love", getting back together, happened to ne one?

[wow]

If this happened today, then initiate NC right away. Do not pick up his calls or reply to any of his msgs for a week. But at the same time you better not get hold of him. He is expecting you to try and get hold of him. DONT!

 

This will make him long for you and might bring up those feelings of love for you again. But if u are still around then he wont miss you.

Let him burn and HE WILL COME BACK.

 

Question you should ask yourself over this week is do u want him back?

[sarah12]

I have heard it happening once, but they kept breaking up again afterwards.

[LucreziaBorgia]

When you fall out of love, its like taking your relationship and smashing it down onto the floor in a thousand pieces. You can't unbreak it. You can pick up the pieces and glue them back together, but it will only be an illusion - instead of a whole relationship, it will just be a bunch of pieces stuck back together by some artificial means. 'Getting back together' is only as strong as the artificial means you are using to hold it together. It may hold together, but it will never be as strong as before it was broken. Chances are it will fall back apart. You will never recapture that love that was lost, in the same strength that it was before the break.

 

Now, that's not to say that you can't rebuild a new relationship though. It will require letting that old love die, and letting the hope of reconciliation die along with it. You have to start over with a new relationship and a new love between you. If you and your partner aren't able to make the changes within yourself that are necessary to have an entirely new and different relationship, or if one or both of you are clinging on to the broken pieces of the old relationship - it won't work. You have to think "new" not "fixing old".

 

How to make those changes? You will have to separate from one another, and put the old relationship behind you. The best way to do that, is to go 'no contact'. You will have the unbiased and uninterrupted time to heal, and let that old relationship go. The hardest thing to understand is that when the two partners make the necessary changes, and are ready for a new relationship - it is no guarantee that they will want to go back to their partners. It could well be that the things that drew them to one another, are the very things that are being changed...

[RecordProducer]

Originally posted by kiwi2060

those of u who have been thru either side of this, what would make someone "fall out of love" like that??? is it possible for the person to fall back in love? has this "falling back in love", getting back together, happened to ne one?

I've never fallen back in love with anyone.

How long did you date him? Were you two serious? Did you have any problems?

If he simply realized that he's not in love and broke off, there's nothing you can do but move on. Sorry. I feel for you. The right one will show up sooner or later, don't worry.

[kiwi2060]

thanx everyone.

 

we dated for a yera and half, very serious (planned future and marriage and stuff), had no problems till the end.