BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted October 4, 2015 Share Posted October 4, 2015 I wonder why it seems more men struggle to know how to attract women than the other way around Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted October 4, 2015 Share Posted October 4, 2015 I wonder why it seems more men struggle to know how to attract women than the other way around Conditioned tradition. Hunter gatherer. Me Tarzan, you Jane. It's still very much the viewpoint for many that men should be the ones to 'lead the way'. I don't personally agree with that, I'd like to point out, but when it comes to questions about texting first, suggesting dates/locations, paying for the meal, (there seems to be a difference of opinions certainly, but) it's accepted in some quarters that the guy will do the 'leg-work'.... Link to post Share on other sites
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted October 4, 2015 Share Posted October 4, 2015 Conditioned tradition. Hunter gatherer. Me Tarzan, you Jane. It's still very much the viewpoint for many that men should be the ones to 'lead the way'. I don't personally agree with that, I'd like to point out, but when it comes to questions about texting first, suggesting dates/locations, paying for the meal, (there seems to be a difference of opinions certainly, but) it's accepted in some quarters that the guy will do the 'leg-work'.... ya, I know railing against it obviously will never change it but I personally, hate, despise, loathe people who have the viewpoint or mindset that men have it easier because we are the initiators. Link to post Share on other sites
Author popcornpuff Posted October 5, 2015 Author Share Posted October 5, 2015 Good stuff. Now how do you keep their interest after that? How do you make them answer texts/calls? How do you avoid the fade away? I've had to where women approach me, it's all good then and there, even the next day, but then comes the fade away. *shrugs You're definitely doing something right if you have women approaching you. What are you saying to them in your calls and texts? Link to post Share on other sites
Pillow Posted October 12, 2015 Share Posted October 12, 2015 What I noticed about OP: men are still unrealistic about what women look like. The vast majority of women do not look like that girl. I don't even know if that girl looks like that girl. I've seen models without makeup and they look more normal. There are some gorgeous women in real life though... but lighting and photoshop goes a long way in transforming women into some Barbie doll-looking caricatures. If you're complaining because you can't attract a girl who looks like her, then you don't really have anything to complain about. But be okay with being single until you get one. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Author popcornpuff Posted October 13, 2015 Author Share Posted October 13, 2015 What I noticed about OP: men are still unrealistic about what women look like. The vast majority of women do not look like that girl. I don't even know if that girl looks like that girl. I'm going to be honest and say that I agree with this. This picture was supposedly taken during a chance encounter at a coffee shop, but I find it a bit hard to believe that the author would snap someone's picture first and then go talk to them. Link to post Share on other sites
Jkerr3 Posted October 13, 2015 Share Posted October 13, 2015 I'm with TM here.... While the one guy is going about it the way the OP states. the minute an aloof and tatted up guy that looks like Pauly D walks by, she is biting her lip and staring him down like a dog on a raw roast beef... ...and the first guy is standing there like a dumbell while she off in dreamland.. Seems too contrived...Good looking women see right through that...Better be bringing more to the table,,, IMO. that type of approach only works on shy and awkward women that dont often get male attention... TFY So how exactly should you approach a woman in this situation? Link to post Share on other sites
impatiently_patient Posted October 13, 2015 Share Posted October 13, 2015 I'm going to be honest and say that I agree with this. This picture was supposedly taken during a chance encounter at a coffee shop, but I find it a bit hard to believe that the author would snap someone's picture first and then go talk to them. Stock photo. Link to post Share on other sites
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