Need advice before i do something silly - like kill her!!

[Jadey]

Ok well amybe not KILL lol. Theres a girl at school that is driving me crazy. To cut a long story short, she fancies my ex and hates that i used to go out with him and that shes getting nowhere with him. And so she keeps telling my friends to not han out with me, to not let me hang out with them at lunch and that. My friends do still hang with me so its ok. But shes not resorted to stupid ****ing comments everywhere i am and is always where i am. She told one teacher that I am picking on HER and got me in trouble. Shes a scheming little cow and is good at it so they believe her I cant get away from her stupid behaviour and its started to effect school. My friends hang out with her too so im stuck. Wot should i do before she gets murderd lol?

 

Thing is i dont want to have a massive go at her, cause a big scence or anything cos i want to look bigger than her. And esp infront of the ex who i want back..

[Merin]

KILL Her silly a** with KINDNESS.

 

It may be hard to suck it up and be nice.. BUT it will bring you more benefit to do so all the way around.

I'm not saying you need to kiss her a** or be her best friend, BUT yeah.. smile when you see her, say hello and DON'T resort to talking about her.

[Jadey]

Lol thanks Merin. Its funny you should say that actually cos i thought the same and a couple of times ive said hello and goodbye to her but in a sarcastic tone and that really bugged her. The thing is i had a go at her when this all boiled up at first but then after that i wos like i cant be botherd with all the drama cos theres so much more going on thats more important then her so i just totally blanked her. Only since ive not been nasty to her and ignoring her shes started bringing **** up and acting stuoid. Its like shes pissed that im not pissed at her. Lmao. She mst want the drama

 

WOuld you continue to hang about where you normally do? Eventho shes trying her hardest to make you stop?

 

Thanks, Jadexx

[Marshbear]

Unless she gets physical with you the best advice is to live your life with the least interference from her as possible.

 

If you resort to name calling or personal attacks you look as silly as she does.

 

If you see her say Hi but don't go out of your way to be nice. Avoid her as much as possible but be friendly when you do see her. It will tear her up. People hate it when they are mean and you don't respond like they want you to.

 

Peace...

[L_and_P21]

i kinda know how you feel but instead of a class mate its my pop. ive moved out about 3 times cause he can be a jerk. anywho where im going is that my grandma told me to kill my dad with kindness.

 

thats what you should do. kill her with kindness. thus you get both, you kill her and you look like the better person ill agree with the other two posters, you should say hi and bye and compliment her on things. if she is leaving you high and dry tell your friends how you feel and that she is just using them to get to mr hottie. but the best thing you can do is just go up to this guy and tell him you want him back. cause you dont know how he feels until you let him know how he feels. that way if you get him back it will shut her up. and if she ends up going ballistic about that then tell a teacher, councelor or even the principal that she is out to ruin your life and that its cutting into your school life