sweet_princess Posted May 18, 2005 Share Posted May 18, 2005 [font=arial][/font] Here's the short story...I got engaged back in December 2004 and it seems like everything is going downhill. I don't know wha is happening. We barely have sex anymore and last night I asked him why we don't have sex that much anymore, he said... "I don't know". I then proceded to ask him if he's attracted to me and he then says "Sometimes" What kind of answer is that. He pays no attention to me and when I told him that he said he does. I must also add that he likes to hang out with my neighbor a lot which is a woman and I have told him multiple times that I don't like it, he says we are just friends, she says they are best friends. I can't take it anymore. We hung out with her 4 days in a row last week and I can't stand her. Can someone tell me what I should do, because obviously by me telling him how I feel doesn't seem to matter to him....Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted May 18, 2005 Share Posted May 18, 2005 something smells fishy to me.....could be neighbor pussy or just loads of BS. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sweet_princess Posted May 18, 2005 Author Share Posted May 18, 2005 Let me also add that I have confranted him and her about how I feel and they have both told me they are not interested in eachother and that they are just friends. My fiance has cheated on me 2years ago and we broke up and got back together after 3 months. So I guess Im scared to know if something is up or its just me being dramatic. I would think that if I tell him it bothers me then he wouldn't continue to hang with her. Bu that is not the case at all! Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted May 18, 2005 Share Posted May 18, 2005 well you certainly have reason to believe something may be up, due to his past actions. And if he will not stop hanging with her, for you...i would say F~ Off to him, and give him back his ring. you do not have to break up, but show him that you are serious. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted May 19, 2005 Share Posted May 19, 2005 Why do you want to marry someone who: 1. has cheated on you 2. doesn't pay attention to you 3. is "sometimes" attracted to you 4. doesn't have sex with you often 5. does things that he knows upset you, like hangs out with the neighbor very often? Do you really think you will be happy with him for the rest of your life? Link to post Share on other sites
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