Jadey Posted May 20, 2005 Share Posted May 20, 2005 Hmmm i dont think my ex has slept with his new bird yet. Is it not rebound then? Link to post Share on other sites
mullins Posted May 21, 2005 Share Posted May 21, 2005 Hmmm i dont think my ex has slept with his new bird yet. Is it not rebound then? I would still think its a rebound, even if like my x and claims to have no feelings or sadness regarding me. I dont think you can go out straight away, meet someone, and boom....your in love. Link to post Share on other sites
XNemesisX Posted May 21, 2005 Share Posted May 21, 2005 Originally posted by mullins I would still think its a rebound, even if like my x and claims to have no feelings or sadness regarding me. I dont think you can go out straight away, meet someone, and boom....your in love. Some people sure can.... Especially if the dumper lost feelings for the dumpee long before the break up ever even happened. Trust me on this...it is very possible. I guess I got what was coming to me in my last breakup (where I was basically the dumpee) because in the one before him, I was over and done with the guy after I broke up with him and fell madly in love with another guy very soon. I'm sure this isn't what you all want to hear. I can understand that being dumped and then the person suddenly in another relationship is painful, but don't count on it just being a rebound. These people could have been long over you waaay before you even knew it. Link to post Share on other sites
Jadey Posted May 21, 2005 Share Posted May 21, 2005 Well he seems bloody unhappy. And somebody tells me they hardley even see eachother I dont know.. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedInOC Posted May 21, 2005 Share Posted May 21, 2005 Originally posted by XNemesisX Some people sure can.... Especially if the dumper lost feelings for the dumpee long before the break up ever even happened. Trust me on this...it is very possible. I guess I got what was coming to me in my last breakup (where I was basically the dumpee) because in the one before him, I was over and done with the guy after I broke up with him and fell madly in love with another guy very soon. I'm sure this isn't what you all want to hear. I can understand that being dumped and then the person suddenly in another relationship is painful, but don't count on it just being a rebound. These people could have been long over you waaay before you even knew it. If they were seeing the other person for some time before they dumped you, maybe. If they jump into another relationship right after and had not known the person that long, then it's most likely infatuation/rebound. Dumpers like to jump right into the arms of someone else because it makes forgetting the dumpee easier. If the dumpee doesn't jump into someone else's arms, then it seems the chances for reconciliation are much better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author eastern_mystique Posted May 21, 2005 Author Share Posted May 21, 2005 Wow, my original post about how difficult NC is has been sabotaged by a lively discussion on rebounds. Whodathunkit? lol..... Link to post Share on other sites
mullins Posted May 21, 2005 Share Posted May 21, 2005 This post doesn't have a point. Wow, my original post about how difficult NC is has been sabotaged by a lively discussion on rebounds. Whodathunkit? lol..... LOL, at least it holds us all together and keeps us marginally sane Link to post Share on other sites
kaylap89 Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 yes it feels awful to ignore the one you love, But in my case hes the one ignoring me, and Im doing it right back. It hurts and it is very hard to get over, And im not gonna lie its a horrible thing to do, to have to resort to havin to stop talkin to the one you love, but sometimes thats the only thing to do.... Link to post Share on other sites
brittanyjean259 Posted October 8, 2005 Share Posted October 8, 2005 hahaahaha i always think the same thing" gosh what if i my ex saw me doing this?.. ehh haha yeah a girl can dream i usally dream about gettin it on with other guys and him sstanding right there watching ahahhhaa Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted October 8, 2005 Share Posted October 8, 2005 Post is 4 months old... Link to post Share on other sites
brittanyjean259 Posted October 8, 2005 Share Posted October 8, 2005 yeah i seem to go on a rampage of replying to every ones and not realzing some of them were along time ago! sorry! Link to post Share on other sites
NewLee40 Posted October 8, 2005 Share Posted October 8, 2005 Yes, it does feel weird. Fortunately for me, I kind of doubt I would run into him anywhere. It COULD happen, and with the way my life runs, some weird sequence of events could occur that I would run into him. We don't live terribly far apart, but I purposefully stay away from his area and usual haunts. I hope it never happens. Its hard enough when he pops up out of the blue in email, or calls me. I still love him, but I do NC because I need to get over him. Not only do I not want to allow him the opportunity to get into my life and screw around with it some more, but I want to protect myself from any knowledge that I might gain that he's got someone else or is moving on. I just wish I could forget he existed. But, that's not possible. Hopefully, time will heal my broken heart. Its been 4 months since we broke up, and less than a month since our last contact. I know I'm coping better, but my love is as strong as it ever was. I have no idea how long it will take for that part to die. Link to post Share on other sites
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