truncated Posted October 9, 2015 Share Posted October 9, 2015 Was not married. However why resort to contractual understanding when essentially it is about ethics. Ie wfie could understand that his happiness is as important as hers and to expect one partner to find all needs met in or relationship is unhealthy that's the difference. your male friend was there long before your current relationships, and he might well also be there long after. You have never hidden him or pretended he was something he was not. It might be quite different if the OP had told his wife something like " I met a great girl at work, and i think you'd like her too. How about I invite her and her SO over for dinner net week" What he has done is hidden a relationship from his wife , acted inappropriately, and seems to be getting some sort of a thrill out of having the two meet as if nothing has ever happened between the him and her. second- while you may see marriage in a certain way, that doesn't mean others do. Obviously, this situation is outside the allowable parameters of their marriage that they both agreed to, otherwise, he wouldn't have ask how best to go about trying to sneak in through the back door what he couldn't ( and never tried) to get in through the front 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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