rngrl12 Posted October 6, 2015 Share Posted October 6, 2015 I have been coping as well as I can having to see my ex daily. I really miss him. I miss my best friend, the person I could tell anything to. I have no idea what's going through his head or who he has become. He's been bragging to several of my friends/classmates about what a good decision dumping me was, how he's the happiest ever, how many girls he can get. One of my classmates told me (I did NOT ask) how he goes to bars every night and gets hammered and hooks up with random girls. I have no idea the person he has become but I guess it's normal because he's 22. I miss him like crazy. I don't think I'll ever hear from him again because after this semester we're both moving far away. I wish he'd come back, I really do. Link to post Share on other sites
MagicRat09 Posted October 6, 2015 Share Posted October 6, 2015 I'm so sorry. Can you keep busy, do things that keep you from having to see or think about him? Link to post Share on other sites
HGD38 Posted October 6, 2015 Share Posted October 6, 2015 I know how you're feeling. My ex of 4 years was my best friend, I told her everything and we supported each other with everything. She left me for another guy. I always thought regardless of our relationship, how could a best friend do that. . . 2 months down the line I can assure you it get easier keep staying positive and find things to focus your attentions on. I wished my ex would come back, now I realised I did nothing wrong and actually I'm better off now. Keep smiling Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted October 6, 2015 Share Posted October 6, 2015 I don't think it's a good idea to make your bf/gf your best friend. Why? Because when you break up you need a best friend to get you through it. I would suggest that you make someone your friend now and develop that relationship so you will have support in the future. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
HGD38 Posted October 6, 2015 Share Posted October 6, 2015 sometimes I don't think it can be helped! There are 2 types of relationships in my eyes: ones which are just about the lust, and ones that are about the connection as well as the lust. For the latter, I think it's impossible to avoid this person being your best friend. That isn't to say you can't have a best friend outside of your relationship Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted October 8, 2015 Share Posted October 8, 2015 You definitely need a best friend outside of a relationship. Most people, especially women when involved in a relationship give their all to the man and neglect their friendships. When a break up occurs they find themselves alone with no support. I see this all the time here on LS especially with young women. Why don't they have friends? When I was young I had lots of friends to hang out with. Why is this not the case with young people today? Link to post Share on other sites
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