Mrin Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 Strip clubs can be fun but make sure she's game. Some pointers: 1. Take her to a high end strip club. Like really high end. Part of the allure for a lot of women is the fantasy of it. Not just the boobs. 2. Keep your wallet in your pants. Don't tip the dancers and for heaven's sake, do not get a lap dance for yourself unless she's practically begging you to. 3. Get a lap dance for her. But be discriminating about it. Tell her to pick our the dancer. 4. Don't stay too long. Maybe an hour. But make it all about her. 5. Get a hotel nearby for the night so you guys can cab/uber it and get tipsy. Nice hotel. Then go back and absolutely savage her with wild hotel sex. Other ideas: 1. Sex/swingers club. Not sure if there is one in your neck of the woods. I know you said "no third parties" and that's cool. You can still go and get really turned on by seeing everyone else going at it. 2. Public sex - forget cars. Unless you have a freaking tank they are usually too cramped. Go have sex in a park. Or on a hike. Or maybe in a parking garage. Be spontaneous. 3. Hotel sex - go get a room at the Westin (mmmm Heavenly beds...) and wreck the sheets like the rockstars you are. Link to post Share on other sites
T-16bullseyeWompRat Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 Strip clubs can be fun but make sure she's game. Some pointers: 1. Take her to a high end strip club. Like really high end. Part of the allure for a lot of women is the fantasy of it. Not just the boobs. 2. Keep your wallet in your pants. Don't tip the dancers and for heaven's sake, do not get a lap dance for yourself unless she's practically begging you to. 3. Get a lap dance for her. But be discriminating about it. Tell her to pick our the dancer. 4. Don't stay too long. Maybe an hour. But make it all about her. 5. Get a hotel nearby for the night so you guys can cab/uber it and get tipsy. Nice hotel. Then go back and absolutely savage her with wild hotel sex. Other ideas: 1. Sex/swingers club. Not sure if there is one in your neck of the woods. I know you said "no third parties" and that's cool. You can still go and get really turned on by seeing everyone else going at it. 2. Public sex - forget cars. Unless you have a freaking tank they are usually too cramped. Go have sex in a park. Or on a hike. Or maybe in a parking garage. Be spontaneous. 3. Hotel sex - go get a room at the Westin (mmmm Heavenly beds...) and wreck the sheets like the rockstars you are. Hotel sex is the best for me right now. After this long, you know the code to your wife's safe. Hotel sex is like a cheat code, the safe is open before you really even get started. Oh yeah, time to explore :) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Peach Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 (edited) 2. Public sex - forget cars. Unless you have a freaking tank they are usually too cramped. Go have sex in a park. Or on a hike. Or maybe in a parking garage. What I found worked the best in cars was to have the guy sit on a seat (my preference is the back seat) and then get on top. Just wear easy access clothes like a dress and no panties. Also not sure if she would be up to it but anal can be naughty and fun too. That area is really sensitive to being licked and touched even if she doesn't want to try penetration. I have a book (by Dr. Pat Allen) that suggests going for two hours just touching but not speaking. You can take a bath, cuddle, etc. She suggests it as an exercise to restore intimacy and passion. Edited October 16, 2015 by Miss Peach 2 Link to post Share on other sites
kilgore Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 I had a boyfriend take me a strip club. The last thing it did for me was add a spark to our relationship. Most women are not comfortable seeing others stripping and dancing; we compare ourselves to them too much. :eek: Agree. I don't want to go to a strip club w/o my wife, forget with her Link to post Share on other sites
KenpoGi Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 I think the simplest thing to do hear would be to ask your wife what some of her craziest sexual fantasies are. Go from there. If it seems a strip club would be appropriate, have at it. Link to post Share on other sites
spanz1 Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 sure, as long as she is not so shy that she would hate it. If she has bisexual tendencies, then she will really enjoy it too If NOT, then you had better take her to a place that has male dancers too! Link to post Share on other sites
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