Author Xidion Posted September 15, 2015 Author Share Posted September 15, 2015 Here is a link to the photo of the test. http://s11.postimg.org/ow91ajv2r/IMG_0708.jpgt My problem with it is that the line on the left, which is the pregnancy line looks off center compared to the photos of tests I've seen on google. I'm curious as to if she found a marker that's similar in color. Also, the line looks a lot thicker than lines from other positive tests. She agreed to a blood test but said she would go to her own doctor to do so. Link to post Share on other sites
warshaw Posted September 15, 2015 Share Posted September 15, 2015 I see one primary line. The other is faint- as in, not indicating pregnancy. You dodged a bullet. Now go no contact, and use the free time to meet a girl closer to your own age and read about how to prevent unwanted pregnancies so you can live happily ever after. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted September 15, 2015 Share Posted September 15, 2015 Here is a link to the photo of the test. http://s11.postimg.org/ow91ajv2r/IMG_0708.jpgt My problem with it is that the line on the left, which is the pregnancy line looks off center compared to the photos of tests I've seen on google. I'm curious as to if she found a marker that's similar in color. Also, the line looks a lot thicker than lines from other positive tests. She agreed to a blood test but said she would go to her own doctor to do so. No, that's a negative result. In other words (see the diagram on the indicator for confirmation) she's NOT pregnant. A pregnancy is denoted by two lines. Both visible, strong and definite - like the line on the right. The photo she's sent you indicates she's not expecting a baby... And the blood test saga denotes a wish to cover something up.... If she comes back with a positive blood-test result, advise her you want her to conform to a DNA test. Honestly, notwithstanding how you feel about her, any sane guy with a head on his shoulders would require that, at least, first and foremost....... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
warshaw Posted September 15, 2015 Share Posted September 15, 2015 The photo she's sent you indicates she's not expecting a baby... She certainly IS expecting a baby, the photo has nothing whatsoever to do with her expectations. She's going to be disappointed however, due to the obviously negative test results that the Op inexplicably fails to understand. Looks like they're going to have to try harder. Much harder. Months of daily unprotected sex didn't do it, the next step would be to up the unprotected sex to twice daily, that way she's walking around with active sperm inside of her on a regular basis. That greatly increases the chances of conception. Link to post Share on other sites
Nolan 93 Posted September 15, 2015 Share Posted September 15, 2015 "Phooo!! Bomb disarmed sir":cool: It's amazing how some women try to lock you down, by saying I'm pregnant. I would be relieved to see a negative test. Link to post Share on other sites
Assil Posted September 15, 2015 Share Posted September 15, 2015 Any line at all means pregnant, faint or not. However, you should only read a pregnancy test at the time specified, if you look at it hours later, it will often give you this type of faint line that makes it look like you’re pregnant. It's happened to me and I've never actually been pregnant. So you can't know for sure if she's pregnant from just this, but I'm guessing and hoping for your sake that it's just wishful thinking on her part. Sounds like she's hungry for drama. Link to post Share on other sites
warshaw Posted September 15, 2015 Share Posted September 15, 2015 Any line at all means pregnant, faint or not. Ass is right, I googled it. We're back to expecting. Time to start picking names. Link to post Share on other sites
Christos Posted September 15, 2015 Share Posted September 15, 2015 Ass is right, I googled it. We're back to expecting. Time to start picking names. Lol. You are cruel. Seriously, this is no joke subject. If she is indeed pregnant, someone's life is about to be ruined in some way... Hope it is not the one of the innocent unborn child... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PaperCrane Posted September 15, 2015 Share Posted September 15, 2015 That's a hell of a big negative. Both lines would be just as dark if positive. HOWEVER If she's trying this right now, be careful in the next year or so. Many places say that whom she declares as the father is the father until proven otherwise. You may be in for a roller coaster ride. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Xidion Posted September 26, 2015 Author Share Posted September 26, 2015 I'm 6' 250 and mostly muscle. He's 5'9 at best and scrawny. I've never been more furious at another human being in my life. They drove by at about 10 mph as I was walking down the sidewalk. I really considered busting her window out and grabbing him by the throat which I could easily have done... bit I didn't. I have so much to lose. Really it isn't just his fault but the entire time we were together, he never left her alone. Wow. So ****ing mad. Had to come home and unload on the heavy bag for 30 minutes. Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 He's not the problem. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Dutchman1 Posted September 26, 2015 Share Posted September 26, 2015 Sorry mate, she made a choice. Tell us more, maybe we can help. Take care Dutchman 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LoveIsMyReligion Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 Sure the kid isn't a saint but your ex girlfriend is the problem not him. You let her walk all over you and took her back after she cheated. It's easier to point the finger at other people but why not look in the mirror and ask yourself why you took a cheater back in the first place? Self-respect man, I think a lot of us could use a prescription for it because we are willing to bend over backwards for people who treat us like ****. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sbk24 Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 Hi, I get angry too when I see my ex and her new bf too. However, you have to remember that it takes two to tango. Your ex should have been strong and said no. Believe me, the anger sometimes takes control but like you have said you have too much to lose. Why should we f*** up our lives just for people who shouldn't be in our lives. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
buddha84 Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 I've felt the same way about my ex being with the guy she cheated on me with. He is 10 years older than her, about my same height, not in as good of shape, a coworker, less educated, and even has the same exact first name as me. Then I realized that I am better than the both of them. He can have her because she is a cheater. You don't need someone like that man. Plenty of women out there - it's just about working on your self-esteem and realizing that this person is treating you like you aren't important. And it's all on her - she made the choice, she got with another person, and she is the one who hurt you. Focus your anger on her, and go through the phases of a breakup being single and by yourself. Make her regret not having you in her life, because you have accomplished so much. Make her regret that she will never have another chance with you and is now stuck with her choice. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Samuel_22 Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 I'm 6' 250 and mostly muscle. He's 5'9 at best and scrawny. I've never been more furious at another human being in my life. They drove by at about 10 mph as I was walking down the sidewalk. I really considered busting her window out and grabbing him by the throat which I could easily have done... bit I didn't. I have so much to lose. Really it isn't just his fault but the entire time we were together, he never left her alone. Wow. So ****ing mad. Had to come home and unload on the heavy bag for 30 minutes. So she downgraded huh? the same happened to me, my ex left me for an ex, and I saw them some about 3 weeks ago...the boy looked like ****, these people out of their minds....hey listen to me, you shouldn't be sad at all, you should be happy, she got what she deserved, you deserve better, that was just a sign for you... calm down and know that your ex is responsible for this mess, and I am pretty sure one day when you find the one that you deserve you will thank her for leaving you... stay strong man...we have been through worse...this is nothing 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Xidion Posted September 27, 2015 Author Share Posted September 27, 2015 Deep down I know she's no good. She cheated in her last relationship, which was on the ex she's now with again.. she cheated on me... and i forgave her for it (3 months ago) And i actually recently discovered that she was cheating on him WITH me before she actually left him.. she had told me they were broken up for months. She's also been texting me from her work, but only when she is at work, telling me how unhappy she is.. blah blah blah.. trying to keep me on a string for when she gets bored of him again. She's a serious jumper. Just sucks that I emotionally invested in this girl and wasted my time on her for nothing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 Deep down I know she's no good. She cheated in her last relationship, which was on the ex she's now with again.. she cheated on me... and i forgave her for it (3 months ago) And i actually recently discovered that she was cheating on him WITH me before she actually left him.. she had told me they were broken up for months. She's also been texting me from her work, but only when she is at work, telling me how unhappy she is.. blah blah blah.. trying to keep me on a string for when she gets bored of him again. She's a serious jumper. Just sucks that I emotionally invested in this girl and wasted my time on her for nothing. She cheated on him with you....so he probably blames you as well. Sooner or later, you and he will realise she's not worth it. She's a serial cheater and it's in your best interests to block her number and on social media. You sound like you could get a decent girl who won't cheat on you. She's proven that she can't be faithful.....don't waste any of your valuable time on her. She's keeping you dangling .....don't accept it or she'll be back and she'll do it again. Protect your heart from this messed up girl. You can do so much better. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Xidion Posted September 27, 2015 Author Share Posted September 27, 2015 She cheated on him with you....so he probably blames you as well. Sooner or later, you and he will realise she's not worth it. She's a serial cheater and it's in your best interests to block her number and on social media. You sound like you could get a decent girl who won't cheat on you. She's proven that she can't be faithful.....don't waste any of your valuable time on her. She's keeping you dangling .....don't accept it or she'll be back and she'll do it again. Protect your heart from this messed up girl. You can do so much better. She seems desperate to keep me dangling. She lays the love bombing on thick. Such as: "I don't want this, I just don't want to hurt him and I've dug this hole I can't get out of. I don't want to settle for someone who isn't a Christian, I want to raise a family with you in a Christian home. I do love him, but I don't care for him like I do you. I hate this :(" Got that from her a couple days ago.. I didn't reply. She has some daddy issues.. If I went somewhere and didn't reply to a text of hers within 5 minutes, she started freaking out and calling me. Anyway, yeah.. I'm successful, good job, in pretty good shape.. etc.. Her ex is jobless, no direction in life, etc.. I need to prepare myself for if she tries to come back. Because physically she's a 10.. most beautiful girl I've ever seen. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
dumbass2 Posted September 27, 2015 Share Posted September 27, 2015 "She seems desperate to keep me dangling" No, she knows exactly what she is doing and she is playing you and you are the one coming off desperate by allowing her to do this to you. You have no self esteem in her eyes. "Because physically she's a 10.. most beautiful girl I've ever seen." And she knows this and that she is in control because of it. At this point it is all on you. Don't make excuses for why she does things. You know she has issues. You are making the choices to stay in contact. This is not on her. You can take full control or continue to let yourself be her puppet. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LoveIsMyReligion Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 A lot of people think their ex is a 10 after they get dumped. I'll bet everyone here would rate her a 7-8 at most if we saw her. No offense but this girl sounds super intelligent talking about raising a Christian family while cheating and sleeping with multiple people. I wouldn't date someone like that if they looked like Scarlett Johansson. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted September 28, 2015 Share Posted September 28, 2015 Care about yourself by not caring about them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Xidion Posted September 28, 2015 Author Share Posted September 28, 2015 A lot of people think their ex is a 10 after they get dumped. I'll bet everyone here would rate her a 7-8 at most if we saw her. No offense but this girl sounds super intelligent talking about raising a Christian family while cheating and sleeping with multiple people. I wouldn't date someone like that if they looked like Scarlett Johansson. I know... she's lost.. it's obvious. Hell, I'm lost. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Xidion Posted September 28, 2015 Author Share Posted September 28, 2015 Care about yourself by not caring about them. Well said, and that's what I need to do... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Xidion Posted September 28, 2015 Author Share Posted September 28, 2015 I'm starting this diary to get support from you guys and support myself into doing strict no contact. I texted her today just to tell her that she still had several things here at my apartment and that eventually I'm going to need my things back. I didn't expect a response because over the weekend I basically told her to get lost and forget about me. So tomorrow will start day 1 of no contact. Link to post Share on other sites
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