Just 1 more Question

[digger]

I'm trying..really trying to get on with my life. But like only the human I am, I go back and think things. I guess Im stil in shock over the D, and i wish i had access to a psychologist to ask this. but I'' let you, my buddies give it a shot.

 

What gets into someone when:

 

a) they lay their head on your shoulder 2 weeks before D papers come

and tell you they love you

 

b) blow you kisses when driving away to work

 

c) write you cards to "stay with me forever"

 

d) Hate you like poison from the minute the divorce papers come and never give you the time of day.

 

Is it hormonal? Does something snap? Is it confusion? Is it guilt?

 

What causes Jekyll to become Hyde in this situation?

[st8toftheheart]

This doesn't happen in all cases.

 

I told my wife when I left that I wanted to make it easy as I could on her. That I didn't hate her, but I just didn't love her anymore.

 

But the moment here sisters got involved, they became the Witches of Eastwick.

 

But as for her action prior to that. I think that perhaps that she had doubts in her mind, and that those actions were to try and convince herself that everything was ok, that she still loved you.

 

But when that mask came off, she broke the news, and now with the relief off her shoulders she wanted to move on and fast.

 

Hope this was of some help.

[digger]

It makes sense but alot of things dont. She told me "i quit saying i love you on Feb 15th". (march 1st D papers are served). I dont think you turn it off like a light.

[st8toftheheart]

Originally posted by digger

It makes sense but alot of things dont. She told me "i quit saying i love you on Feb 15th". (march 1st D papers are served). I dont think you turn it off like a light.

 

No its not a switch. You may think it was like a swicth because it hit you all of a sudden, but its probably been brewing inside her for sometime. If you could read minds, you could have seen it grow.