nomisalexandro Posted October 11, 2015 Share Posted October 11, 2015 Could you mention one or two things that you have to offer a man. Link to post Share on other sites
acrosstheuniverse Posted October 11, 2015 Share Posted October 11, 2015 Why? This isn't a dating site. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Empyrea Posted October 11, 2015 Share Posted October 11, 2015 Could be a good exercise in knowing your worth -my companionship, I'm usually a fun person to have around -my sense of humour, I will make you laugh! -my intelligence, I can help you out with that tricky puzzle or have an educational debate -my emotional intelligence, I have some -my ideas, I have lots! -my support, I'm super supportive -myself! hmm I'm sure there's more 3 Link to post Share on other sites
mystikmind2005 Posted October 11, 2015 Share Posted October 11, 2015 pretty much whatever a man offers a woman but in reverse 2 Link to post Share on other sites
VengeanceGuidesMe Posted October 11, 2015 Share Posted October 11, 2015 In general, I find that women have very little to offer me. They're not going to buy me dinner or help me make some break through realization with my work. They have vaginas, which I like. Rarely are they funny and laid back. Mostly they have the same taste in music as their ex boyfriend, emotional baggage, and school debt for an interior design degree they are paying off by being a waitress. Still waiting to find one that hasn't made my life more complicated. Link to post Share on other sites
Raena Posted October 11, 2015 Share Posted October 11, 2015 Good luck with that... relationships are complicated in general so being in one will almost always make your life more complicated. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveLady Posted October 11, 2015 Share Posted October 11, 2015 (edited) In general, I find that women have very little to offer me. They're not going to buy me dinner or help me make some break through realization with my work. They have vaginas, which I like. Rarely are they funny and laid back. Mostly they have the same taste in music as their ex boyfriend, emotional baggage, and school debt for an interior design degree they are paying off by being a waitress. Still waiting to find one that hasn't made my life more complicated. It's not all women's fault that you are choosing those type of women. Just like people tell women to stop picking badboys and players, you need to pick better women. I know lots of women that are funny and laid back including myself. I even had one guy tell me he didn't think I cared about him bc I didn't "nag" or care if he watched football with his friends and it made him feel like I didn't care so he said it made him insecure and he ended it hahaha There are lots of guys that pretend they want drama free and laid back but are really addicted to drama queens. Edited October 11, 2015 by LoveLady 8 Link to post Share on other sites
autumnnight Posted October 11, 2015 Share Posted October 11, 2015 Here's what I have to offer: Intelligence A finely honed sense of humor Care and compassion for others Straighforwardness Creativity A positive outlook A career of my own The ability to cook great comfort home cooking Interest in trying new things Energy Capacity to love all in Passion Generosity I purposely did not list any physical characteristics, although I quite like myself I have worked a lot on myself after receiving some solid advice from a dear friend: instead of feeling entitled to the prize, BE the prize 6 Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted October 12, 2015 Share Posted October 12, 2015 sense of humor, sense of curiosity, loyalty, mad fun ... it seems to have worked these past 20-plus years! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
William Posted October 12, 2015 Share Posted October 12, 2015 If members identify as women, please share what you personally have to offer men in the realm of interpersonal relationships. There are other threads for men to discuss what they want from women or what they perceive women to offer them. Thanks! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted October 12, 2015 Share Posted October 12, 2015 I have A LOT more to offer than most women out there if you ask me... I'm a rare "Jem". I cook, clean, sex, keep my body tight. I work, have my own things and am not some slug; and, actually have something going on for myself. I have a life. I can also change the oil on my vehicle while baking a cake in the oven. I am not a game player. I am not a manipulator. I am a one man woman...period. I'm educated, kinda smart, and compassionate. I could go on and on, but meh, does it matter? Been passed over many of times for chicks that are manipulative, slugs, etc. I'm not what most guys are looking for now a days. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted October 12, 2015 Share Posted October 12, 2015 Come on ladies.........pizza and beer!!!! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
loveflower Posted October 12, 2015 Share Posted October 12, 2015 I am wondering what my friend's bf has to offer ...she pays for herself on dates. she is dying to visit some places in the USA which is only about 6 hours drive from her and she can only go by herself. can't her bf just go with her? what is a bf use for? they have been today for than a year now. In my mind, I can't help thinking she is a loser. I mean, she is a decent looking single lady, and the guy just so so looking and has a child. come on! can she do better? of course I can't say that to her. what the heck. what exactly is her bf has to offer to her??? free sex? please... Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted October 12, 2015 Share Posted October 12, 2015 (edited) i can cook ......which maybe not such a good thing most guys i have been with put on a little weight at first then we lose it together...lol...ahem i can be funny for no reason and not meaning to be.........i can promise laughs....many i am caring protective defensive loyal all things you can get from a dog.....but with me you dont get the vet bill and i am toilet trained at all times.....i only shed hair in the shower.....which i am able to pick up myself..... i am a multiple personality so i am the proverbial box of chocolates......you never know whatcha gonna git......this could really quite possibly turn many guys off.....but thats ok...wouldnt want them to stay anyway.......they cant handle the truth...yep im a movie buff.,.... when i am fit...its hard to keep up with me.....but its fun..... when i am not fit.......i lag behind and smell the roses.......i look at things i would have missed if i were fit because i walk slower..... i am faithful..... yeah well so are dogs...so see vet bill above i am a free spirit...i dont need constant attention i believe in relationships.......and i think life is a gift..... i am a package deal not just me which is a package in one...i come with another package of a ready made dysfunctional family.......we arent perfect....we just do our best....and we try to help other people not hinder them and thats my best quality...no matter how many times i fall....ill get back up again and ill do my best for myself.....and by everyone around me.ill be there...whether i feel good or not...im there...and of all i have done...i am proudest of my ability to be there for others...i know what its like when no one is........deb Edited October 12, 2015 by todreaminblue 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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