Chloex Posted October 11, 2015 Share Posted October 11, 2015 so ive been speaking to a guy for about 4 month texting alot everyday without a doubt, i usually call him sometimes too, we talk about meeting up now and again but it never really goes anywhere. He lives in the same country as me and is about a 4-5 hour train ride from me. Hes about 16 years old than me too. Anyway i have a gut feeling suddenly andi feel like hes not interested anymore i always try to persuade him to call me for a change as its always me calling and kind of always me making conversation so im trying to distance myself and see what he does. The whole meeting up thing too seems to be an issue tbh im 19 and hes 35 and i find it pretty daunting and scary if im honest so i suggested him coming here to see me or even meeting half way as its alot to travel. Each time i mention it though he kind of goes along with it then brushes it off like it doesnt matter he lives alone with his dog and always says he couldnt meet me because of his dog, i do know he has family etc who could look after, it seems hes alot more interested and bothered about his dog than me! i just dont know if im waisting my time tbh Link to post Share on other sites
Lois_Griffin Posted October 11, 2015 Share Posted October 11, 2015 so ive been speaking to a guy for about 4 month texting alot everyday without a doubt, i usually call him sometimes too, we talk about meeting up now and again but it never really goes anywhere. He lives in the same country as me and is about a 4-5 hour train ride from me. Hes about 16 years old than me too. Anyway i have a gut feeling suddenly andi feel like hes not interested anymore i always try to persuade him to call me for a change as its always me calling and kind of always me making conversation so im trying to distance myself and see what he does. The whole meeting up thing too seems to be an issue tbh im 19 and hes 35 and i find it pretty daunting and scary if im honest so i suggested him coming here to see me or even meeting half way as its alot to travel. Each time i mention it though he kind of goes along with it then brushes it off like it doesnt matter he lives alone with his dog and always says he couldnt meet me because of his dog, i do know he has family etc who could look after, it seems hes alot more interested and bothered about his dog than me! i just dont know if im waisting my time tbh Gotta be honest. Any man who continually finds excuses not to meet up with you - using his DOG as the reason for why he cant leave his house for more than a few hours - is hiding something. That 'something' is usually a girlfriend or a wife he can't manage to get away from for a full day/overnighter without it causing a lot of suspicion. hate to say it, but I think you're just a passing online amusement/flirtation for him because he's bored. Cut your losses. He's not worth wasting your time. Besides, someone his age shouldn't be bothering with teenage girls anyway. There's something kind of skeevy about that. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
malehere Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 Yeah sounds fishy, if someone was really interested in you and was being true to you, he would always be ready to meet you or call you back etc. Just be careful, don't let it hurt you Link to post Share on other sites
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