how long can it last?

[howlong]

I have a question,

 

How long it lasted for you?

 

- 2nd try ?

- 3rd try ?

 

for me the 2nd lasted 2 months, i was away for 2 months and now were back together for the 3rd. We´re on the 2 month

[Merin]

I think there are a lot of factors to consider IF a relationship can last after a break up then a reconciliation..

 

1) Why did the break up happen to begin with?

 

2) Was it a mutual decision?

 

3) Where the issues resolved that caused the break up to BOTH parties satisfaction?

 

4) Is there still trust in the relationship?

 

I think to often people get back together out of habit, guilt, lonliness or fear and the same problems keep coming up in the relationship because they were never resolved.