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Will he ever came back after 4 months NC?


Alwayshavefaith

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Alwayshavefaith

I've known my ex for 6 years but we dated only for 5 months. He told me that he loved me first and he's the one that always said things like "I can see us being together for a long time" and all that stuff.

 

Anyway the last week of our relationship we had been fighting abit (we never really had fights in general though) and than all of a sudden he's dumping me saying "I dont think I know what love is, we are too different"

 

I was shattered, I try ally loved him and I felt like I treated him like a good man and was very humble towards him.

 

I thought maybe he left me because I had just met his mates and maybe they didn't like me or maybe he left me because he was going to travel overseas soon and he wanted to "have fun".

 

Anyway I didn't beg for him back but he did know I was extremely devistated. I've been doing 4 months no contact now and he gets back from traveling overseas in a week.

 

I guess I'm scared that he'll come back and still won't contact me and I'll feel sadness and I'm also scared that he will contact me. I'm dreading next week cause I know he will be on my mind.

 

I guess I kind of want him to come back so I get see him in pain too.

 

Has your ex ever tried to reconcile in a similar situation?

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You have been apart almost as long as you were together. No I don't think he's coming back. He saw some fundamental flaws in himself inside that relationship & walked away. That was what was best for him. Sorry.

 

 

The sooner you let go the sooner you can start healing.

 

 

hugs

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