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Mixed Signals + Plan of Action


Chocobo

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HI guys, here's what's up.

 

Met this girl really recently and we hit it off quite well. I invited her to come to my crossfit box for a workout, invited her for a coffee afterwards and we ended up spending the afternoon together. After a while, I invited her for another coffee but she striked me as a very busy person so I stopped wasting my time with her.

 

For some reason that I don't recall, we started talking again. She texted me once that she remembered me, she messaged me on facebook saying she had a dream where I was telling her I was very happy and in love and that got my attention again. I asked her out for lunch on the beach and so it went. Again, we spent the afternoon together again, she even got late for a work appointment but introduced me as her friend to a couple of people that she encountered.

 

During that lunch she told me that she had interest in a guy who asked her if she was happy (which I recall I did because of a book I was reading about the subject) and that she thought that she was signaling him that she was very busy with her work.

 

Again, stroke me as weird. She paid for my lunch so I said I would pay the next one, and we scheduled a new one for the 15th.

 

Now, normally I don't like to be second guessing things so as of now I've decided that I'm going to checkmate her and confront her with the whole dream thing as in "Were you talking about me?". No matter what happens, I don't want to waste more time with this charade.

 

The reason I'm writing this is because I would like some other insights on how you guys perceive this situation. I think that she likes me and she's just playing games. I can find a bunch of signals of interest, some that can go one or the other way and the only ones I can put in the off category is that friend introduction thing (which I would find normal, considering that's what I am at the moment) and some small things here in there that can be atributed to logistics.

 

So...dreaming of me, remembering me often, calling me to tell me a random story which culminates on a 2 hour chat, that whole "guy that i'm into that told me this...". What do you reckon?

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