HereNorThere Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 Unfortunately, If the child is OM's, it will not be your choice as to whether or not he sees the child. He has a LEGAL right to see and raise the child if he so chooses. Your husband will have no legal right to the child. If you die, OM gets the kid. In most these cases, the OMs family will guilt him into splitting custody. I think it's time for you take responsibility and quit destroying more lives. Even your opening post was about how you were upset and angry. Funny how you can be upset when you're the one who has done all the damage. Cheating, trapping you affair partner, cuckolding your husband. I'd say you have zero business raising any sort of child to begin with. I mean, you can't even even remember to take one pill a day. Quit looking for handouts and handle your business. You're a grown woman who knows good and well where babies come from. Time to wash your own dirty laundry and raise it instead of extorting money from these guys. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 Quit looking for handouts and handle your business. You're a grown woman who knows good and well where babies come from. Time to wash your own dirty laundry and raise it instead of extorting money from these guys. Anyone who has sex knows "where babies come from", this applies equally to both partners. Seeking financial support from the child's father is hardly extorting money and advising she not do so is punishing the child more than the OP. Actions do indeed have consequences but that's not a theory to be applied selectively... Mr. Lucky 2 Link to post Share on other sites
MJJean Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 Unfortunately, If the child is OM's, it will not be your choice as to whether or not he sees the child. He has a LEGAL right to see and raise the child if he so chooses. Your husband will have no legal right to the child. If you die, OM gets the kid. In most these cases, the OMs family will guilt him into splitting custody. Not necessarily true. If her state automatically lists the husband as father, she nor OM can do anything without going before a judge and getting a court order stating the child is not issue of the marriage. Until then, if her H is listed on the birth cert as father, he is legally the father with all rights and responsibility. My state is one that automatically lists the husband as father. Friend of the Court, our child support bureau, won't even do paternity testing in cases where there is already a legal father without a judges order saying the child's paternity is in doubt. OP, if you or your husband can afford it, get the maternal blood DNA test and find out who the father is. Then go from there. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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