Raindrop Posted May 21, 2005 Share Posted May 21, 2005 Hi I have broken off with my ex-bf half a year ago. It was quite a messy and sad ending. I regretted shortly after that and wanted to patch up with him. But he thought we could only be friends. He did offer help (on something) and sms me but refused to meet up with me or talk things out with me. When he suspected I was seeing another guy, he started to hang up my phone but still responded to my sms. Due to pride, I decided to cut off all the communication with him shortly after that. It has been half a year since then. I still miss him, cry over him, care for him and miss those sweet memories we had together and unable to start another relationships, thinking that he might come back one day. His birthday is coming soon. Should I take this chance to reconnect with him as I really miss him. Given a 2nd chance, I believe we can work things out. At the same time, I am afraid that he might be in a new relationships now, should I send him a card or shouldn't I? Any suggestion out there? Raindrop Link to post Share on other sites
Poppy Posted May 21, 2005 Share Posted May 21, 2005 Hi Raindrop - what harm can sending a card do??? it sounds as if you hurt him a lot by breaking off the relationship but he didn't cut you off completely and still wanted to be friends. So in my book i would say that he was hurt and is probably still hurting but he left the door open by remaining friends. If i were you, i would go ahead and send the card. You bet he is wondering if you will send him one and then take it from there. Good luck.......................Poppy Link to post Share on other sites
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