Roses777 Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 Hello, I was with my bipolar exgf for almost 6 years, on and off, with lots of examples of her lying to me and/or doing things that were unacceptable within a relationship. In the past she has dumped me out of the blue despite my attempts to understand her feelings. This happened yet again two weeks ago yet this time we are living together until the end of the month. My apartment lease was up so she suggested that I could move in with her. I moved in but she was stressed out because we had more stuff than could fit inside a one person apartment. A lot of my things were wires and the such that appear disorganized but I have no space to keep it out of the way. Long story short, we are still forced to interact with each other as we have mutual pets living here. Until I am able to move the rest of my things and my pets out of here, we have to behave and speak to each other. She finally blocked me off of Facebook after I was trying to understand how she was feeling. Yesterday she was now finally looking at me and had calmed down from a week or so ago and started telling me lots of details about her future. I am curious as to why she is telling me about her future in a different city, how much her rent will be and how she will still be around here on the weekends for a while to train her replacement, etc. She says she is going to get her licence, lose weight with her friend, etc Is this simply telling me how much better her life will be without me in it or is she leaning towards including me in it in the future?? Much thanks guys! Link to post Share on other sites
warshaw Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 She's telling you these things because you're a good listener. Based on what you've written you are not part of her future plans, sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted October 15, 2015 Share Posted October 15, 2015 She's trying to convince everyone including herself & you that she doesn't need you. She is not telling you these things because she wants to build a future with you Link to post Share on other sites
Gretel Posted October 16, 2015 Share Posted October 16, 2015 I think you should find somebody more stable to be in a relationship with. 2 weeks will go by quickly and then get out of there. Good luck! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Roses777 Posted October 20, 2015 Author Share Posted October 20, 2015 She splurged almost $100 on us in food and then started grabbing my crotch the other night. We had sex for the first timr in a month but says I have to earn her phone number (new #). She said it was a one night stand but why have it at all with me if she has no feelings, has me blocked on Facebook, etc.? Link to post Share on other sites
warshaw Posted October 28, 2015 Share Posted October 28, 2015 She splurged almost $100 on us in food and then started grabbing my crotch the other night. We had sex for the first timr in a month but says I have to earn her phone number (new #). She said it was a one night stand but why have it at all with me if she has no feelings, has me blocked on Facebook, etc.? You're like a pet or a toy to her. When she wants to play, she takes you out of the toy basket, and when she's done she goes and picks up a new toy. You want more than she does. A LOT more. That's a receipe for you being used and discarded. Not good. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Roses777 Posted November 6, 2015 Author Share Posted November 6, 2015 I know she had an account on here so I have to be careful on giving specifics. I moved out over a week ago with my pets and all of my stuff. Left the key with the main office too as she had requested. Roughly two days ago, her best friend blocked me over Facebook even though I have not spoken to her in weeks. It was odd. I am assuming my exgf isn't taking the break-up too well...? Link to post Share on other sites
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