Dating a very shy friend

[mikirod]

I've one girl friend (Jane) that we put our relationship into romantic manner. We had all our intimation going in oposite side, we first kissed a long time ago, but that was it, nothing specially happened back then. I stepped back and looked for other girls, then I get into relationship, for few years, that went bad. At the end of relationship i find her very jealous, but she didn't want to show me, she showed to our together friends, because we traveled to vacation, all together and me with my ex, and stayed 5 of us in 1 badroom apartment. Since I was only with girlfriend, it seemed natural that my friends comply with idea that me and my ex should be alone in bedroom, while other 3 should sleep in living room. One of my other friend (Jenny) said that Jane and her should sleep in bedroom. I was very dissapointed by her reaction and that she didn't care that I'm with girlfriend. Month after, I found that this Jenny said it by Jane suggestion. Also what I found that Jane told alot of bad things about my ex, like she is boring, and she is not for me, while she was drunk. Unfortunately my relationship with my ex didn't lasted long after and that has nothing to do with Jane, we had alot of problems. Then I was alone and getting out with girls, had something that I can call dates with Jane few times, we went drunk and had sex. I didn't see her after that for a week, she was very embarrassed. I call another together friend to call her and kinda calm down situation with her, just that she can see that what we had wasn't anything intimidating, that she needs to run away from friend. After that she flirted with me in a very light level. It's like she is saying we are going to amusment park, next time she is saying that she will go with her future boyfriend out there, but not rejecting me. But whenever I try to step forward joking about our two that we would be nice couple, I get no response from her, or just get "You are my friend". While I know she is fantasying about two of us, making plans for two of us only, she is always making excuses why are only two of us only in her plans. Like, "Do you want that two of us go to !@$%^?" Then I answer, then silence, then she responds. "I called my friend Angie, she don't want to go", and always making excuses why she calls me. Once she worked on something in word, she called me to help her by changing font size?! I really don't get her.

 

Our together friend had same problem, but instead guy was shy. She told everything to Jane and thought about it, how her situation is very similar to our. She got very strange response, "When he relieve of fear, he will jump on you, you will see.". I don't know if Jane pulled parallel of our relationship, but she never used to answer something like that. We are good friends, and we know each other for years, but never were close and romantic, like now, that she and me ignore other friends to stay together. I really don't get her, why she is rejecting me when we get fast-forward but when we move slow she is accepting me. But this way we will "get knowing" each other for months, which is not for me, and bothers me If I reject her at the end because I get tired of it. It would be much easier if I didn't know her as a friend. I looked before at her as a pal, not girl.