Frenchy37 Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 Hello All, Haven't been here a while. Not sure if that is either a good or bad thing. As this place has taught me a lot. I need opinions here, from both genders. I won't be writing my entire story, too long anyway. But this is what I need help understanding. I recently broke up with my ex. Two weeks to this day. It was mutual but deep down I regret that I didn't put the last ditch effort, instead after she told me she called her ex.. and talked to him about her un-satisfactions with our relationship, I was fairly upset and didn't want to deal with it, we didn't speak for 2 days. I told her that it was evident she wasn't into this anymore and it wasn't working. I felt and told her that this was a slippery slope. She agreed and it seemed we mutually broke it off. Well today I regret how it went about and feel that maybe I should have given it one last try. She was unhappy about certain things and I had checked-out. But these feelings of regret and sadness came a week after... not the first week of the break up. They came after I told her I didn't like how it ended but I hope she finds what she is looking for. Replies were along the lines of I still like you and find you attractive. Still have feelings for you and probably always will. We just weren't compatible sexually and had a communication issue (disagree with the second part, i'm just not a talker). These texts brought about the feelings I mentioned above. She's already slept around, very sexual women, and she hinted she did something she regretted over the weekend. Why did she tell me how she felt after the fact, she told me some things that made me really sad, like how her feelings were after a certain event. I had no idea, she never told me until after our break up, and her actions were completely different than her feelings. She portrayed something entirely different. So now of course I'm sad, emotional, I told her that I am sorry, I regret not giving her 100% at the end of the relationship. I still want her in my life, but I've accepted it is over. Flood of emotions. Insight appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
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