Alwayshavefaith Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 My ex bf comes back from Europe tomorrow. I accidentally saw a photo of him there (happy) and it made me so sad. I don't know why after 4-5 months since breakup and NC that it still hurt me so bad. I feel like I have this expectation that he might contact me but after I saw his happy photo I have lost hope. I don't think I actually want to be with him again, I think I just want him to regret his descision and want me back. All my friends keep saying "now that he's had his fun in Europe and he's back home just wait for him to text you" I'm so scared of him not texting but also I'm scared he will. I'm such a mess. What do u think? What should I do? Help Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 My ex bf comes back from Europe tomorrow. I accidentally saw a photo of him there (happy) and it made me so sad. I don't know why after 4-5 months since breakup and NC that it still hurt me so bad. I feel like I have this expectation that he might contact me but after I saw his happy photo I have lost hope. I don't think I actually want to be with him again, I think I just want him to regret his descision and want me back. All my friends keep saying "now that he's had his fun in Europe and he's back home just wait for him to text you" I'm so scared of him not texting but also I'm scared he will. I'm such a mess. What do u think? What should I do? Help Don't do anything. And tell your friends their suggestion that he will get in touch is not helpful nor serves any purpose in your healing. It gives you hope when it might be completely unwarranted. Don't reach out to him and consider the relationship well and truly over. Harsh, I know. But re-framing your thoughts like this is the only way you'll give yourself the space you need to move on. You say you accidentally saw a photo of him - where did you see it? Also, how long were you together and why did you break up? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Alwayshavefaith Posted October 18, 2015 Author Share Posted October 18, 2015 I have him blocked on Facebook but for some reason when I was looking through an old photo in my folders I wanted to see the comments. Than I saw an old comment from him and next to his comment his profile picture was visable. I didn't think you could see if he was blocked but obviously you can. I have known him for 6 years and dated in the past. But our this time our relationship was 5 months. Everything was perfect but than after I met his friends he started acting weird for 5 days but denied anything was wrong. My last memory from him is quite sad, he had sex with me and told me he loved me and than the next morning broke up with me and said he didn't love me, Link to post Share on other sites
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