traveler_n Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 I regret breaking up with him. About a month ago my boyfriend at the time and I got into a little argument. He drove me to my place and I gave him his phone back that he had bought for me (he also paid for the plan) and I asked him if he wanted a laptop back that he had bought me. He looked stunned and said no you need both of those things. I then said I don't think I'm the right person for you and he looked hurt (he didn't say anything) and then I left. I then really regretted what I did and he said that we should just end things. He said that he'll probably never get married or have kids and it's not fair to me. Just recently we were looking at houses together and he always talked about marriage during our relationship. He also said that he needs a break because he's stressed with things and he's sorry for hurting me and that we could still be friends and talk. He also said if I ever need anything to just let him know. A couple days later I texted him asking if we could talk because I thought he really did just need a break. He said there is no point in talking. He never has plans to get back together with me and I'm not the person for him. I feel so lost. I know that he really cared and loved me. I haven't talked to him in 2 weeks. I ran into his mom recently and she said that he still has all of my things as I left them in his room. Do you think he'll come back around? It's so hard to think that I'll never talk to him or see him again. I've never been in this much pain. Link to post Share on other sites
mightycpa Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 If I were him, I wouldn't get back together with you. Rather than waste your time trying to revive this dead relationship, you should probably figure out what it is about you that makes you want to hurt the people you love and fix it. A good way to think about this guy that you lost is that this loss is the price you're paying for future happiness. He's the guy that showed you what is wrong with you. Don't squander this opportunity to change for the better. Link to post Share on other sites
Wewon Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 Tough to say, people get back together all of the time. That being said, I wouldn't be in a rush to get back together again. Not out of ego or spite, but because you have to to a little soul searching to make sure that there isn't some fundamental problem that you two have that isn't going away anytime soon. Often times what drives people back together again is actually panic of realizing the magnitude of their decision. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 I'm confused - why did you break up with him, exactly? Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 So he said he'd never get married or have kids and it wasn't fair to you? Well if that's something you wanted, it's a good thing the relationship is over. You acted very childish and hastily in giving back gifts he'd bought you - that would have annoyed me if I were him. Link to post Share on other sites
singme2sleep Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 People always want what they don't have anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Clarence_Boddicker Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Fake attention whoring "breaks or break ups" are a sign of immaturity or a personally disorder. Learn from your mistakes & don't play with people's hearts. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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