Fuzzymuzzy Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 My ex who was engaged to a real jackass about 2 monthes ago calls me up last night to go to the hospital because my son cut himself ( he is ok). While I'm there I see she is wearing an engagement ring. I asked her "are you getting married "? She is, to a guy she has been dating for a month, what a freakin nut job. She told me they dated before ( and she left because he choked her, but only once, in front of a group of her friends). What a moron. Oh well what do I care. But talk about someone with absolutely no idea what is going on around them. She is just desparete to get out of her Grandparents basement. Link to post Share on other sites
XNemesisX Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 Originally posted by Fuzzymuzzy My ex who was engaged to a real jackass about 2 monthes ago calls me up last night to go to the hospital because my son cut himself ( he is ok). While I'm there I see she is wearing an engagement ring. I asked her "are you getting married "? She is, to a guy she has been dating for a month, what a freakin nut job. She told me they dated before ( and she left because he choked her, but only once, in front of a group of her friends). What a moron. Oh well what do I care. But talk about someone with absolutely no idea what is going on around them. That is pretty sad....freakin nut job indeed. She is just desparete to get out of her Grandparents basement. That is hilarious! Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 I just liked the title to the thread! Well hey he ONLY choked her out ONE TIME... so yeah I'm sure he's a peach The bummer (ya know for her) is that not only will she still be living in her G'mas basement, her "Prince" will be living there too.. LOL What a whack-ass! Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 Maybe this guy had a very good excuse to choke this woman, at least in this woman's eyes. A lot of scary things can happen between "normal" couples, and those scary things usually are not made public. Maybe the two of them are actually quite happy together, and this woman is not a "nut job" as you call her. It could be that these two people dated for a very long time in the past, and their relationship is doing quite well now. I know of instances in which two people were married within six months of knowing one another, and those marriages are doing quite well now. I'm just wondering if you considered the possibilities. There may be a lot you are not privy to. Unless you have left out a lot of information, it does sound as though this could go either way: Either she is making a huge mistake, or you are very misinformed about her situation. I just don't "get" how people, already, are starting to cheer the whole "nut job" and "whacko" thing. I just don't. I begin to wonder if this situation is simply classic "hard feelings" between exes. Link to post Share on other sites
XNemesisX Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 Originally posted by faux I know of instances in which two people were married within six months of knowing one another, and those marriages are doing quite well now. Yep, like my parents. Were married 6 months after they first met. And have been married almost 30 years! But it also makes me wonder if the people who do this marry while the infatuation period is still intact, and then once they are married it may be that the institution of marriage itself is what keeps them together longer. Perhaps if they had just been in a relationship without marriage they would have ended up breaking up, ya know? Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 Originally posted by faux Maybe this guy had a very good excuse to choke this woman, at least in this woman's eyes. A "Very good Excuse" to choke the person you love? There isn't an EXCUSE to hurt the person you Love, a good one or otherwise.. While it may be true that there are hard feelings here, he also shares a child with this Woman and yeah if this were me, I would have concerns over the next time this guy has a "Good Excuse" to choke or hit this Girl possibly infront of thier Son. Link to post Share on other sites
BigB Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 My sister is in an abusive relationship so I may be biased, but One time for a slap or something like that MAY have an excuse, but choking? No excuse ever IMO. I swear every time my sisters BF hits her, chokes her, gives her black eyes, or threatens to kill her, it just make her love him more. Link to post Share on other sites
midori Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 Hm, I can see you're bemused about your ex's choice in partner, but aren't you concerned about your son living with/being around someone who has actually choked someone in public? Where are this guy's boundaries? Do you think your son will be safe? That's what I'd be worried about... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fuzzymuzzy Posted May 23, 2005 Author Share Posted May 23, 2005 If anything stupid over there happens in front of my son he will be mine and mine alone. And to Faux this chick is a nut anyone who would want to be with someone that hurt and humiliated them in the past would be a moron in my book. I dunno maybe you can relate or like to be smacked around but I would never let anyone put their hands on me. And by the way I left nothing out this girl bounces from guy to guy looking for the easy way out. And let me tell you from experience there is no easy way out of a bad situation when your the catalyst. Link to post Share on other sites
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