figgurinoutlife Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 Has anyone ever found themselves fantasizing about their ex's even if you broke up w/them, or if you had a really bad breakup and possibly hate each other? If you ex was attractive and good in bed or whatnot do you still fantasize about them no matter how the relationship ended? Does it make you want to get back together w/them sometimes because they are attractive? Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 Never. What's done is done. Link to post Share on other sites
XNemesisX Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 I have fantasized but I really do not want any of my exes back. Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 In the first few months after the break up, yes. Anger can be an aphrodisiac - but it does eventually wear itself out. Remember that you can have anyone you want in your fantasies - so what's it to be? Mr Colin Farrell, Mr Bradley Pitt or your ex-boyfriend, m'lady? Link to post Share on other sites
XNemesisX Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 Well I will say though that if I hate the person I can't fantasize about them. So actually, I have not fantasized about my most recent ex since the break up happened. I hate him too much to even think of him in that way. It repulses me. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 Aside from having sex with them, no (doesn't even matter if they're good or not). Link to post Share on other sites
XNemesisX Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer Aside from having sex with them, no (doesn't even matter if they're good or not). How can you fantasize about someone who was not that good? Must have not been THAT bad then westernxer Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 I'm just being a guy, that's all. Link to post Share on other sites
mixwell Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 yes i still fantasize about my ex.. I think of all the past sexual things we used to do and particular times we did sexual things when im doing the deed.. I dont know why but it just pops in my head.. what a sick and twisted way minds are !! she was sexy though in my mind and the sex was good.. ahhh ok enough pondering about my sexlife with her because i haven't had a sexlife since the breakup (6 months ago) Thats a long time for a guy !!!! Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedInOC Posted May 22, 2005 Share Posted May 22, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer I'm just being a guy, that's all. I know my ex dreams about sex with me. She can say all other aspects of the relationship were off kilter, but that part was magical. I have some solace in that. Shoot. Should have used it to my advantage to gain my respect back. No candy from daddy until you behave Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 The Best Sex ever was with My EXBF I had been with for almost 2 years.. I still think about it from time to time.. Other than him, I really don't think about Sex with other Ex's. Link to post Share on other sites
reservoirdog1 Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 I have the occasional "hot" dream about my ex. The last was a few days ago, before that, more than a year ago. Not sure what to chalk it up to, except that we were together for 11 years so the time with her is burned into me. Link to post Share on other sites
notmakingsense Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 I think about it a lot. Waaaaaayyyyy too much, but its only been about 3 weeks since NC started. She was the best I've had yet in that department. To the point that I'm not sure I'll ever do better. Of course, maybe sex that isn't quite as good with someone who is more in to me in other aspects equals something better all around. I'm waiting to find out if that ends up being true. Link to post Share on other sites
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