rebecca12 Posted October 20, 2015 Share Posted October 20, 2015 (edited) I've been crushing on a strange girl at college for months. I really like her but I don't want go creep her out. Yesterday I saw her leaving campus with a group of friends. I randomly went to her and said hi (I lack social experience and I suck at this) I was extremely shy and blurted out "you seem like a really likeable person and I'd like to be friends with you" it was so random and sudden! I think she was pretty shocked/ baffled/ amused but she was really polite and smiled all the time. Her friends were there too. She said "okay" and asked me my name, told me hers and then left. I know I embarrassed myself big time and I probably shouldn't ever speak to her again. Need advice. Please help. Edited October 20, 2015 by rebecca12 Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted October 21, 2015 Share Posted October 21, 2015 I would just say "hi" (with intent) every time you cross her path... and maybe 1 of every 3 or 4 times, add her name to the "hi ____ ". Make a pattern of it... and in time you will have every reason to get to know her. (maybe you'll see her in the library in a few weeks, after having embarked on this mild plan... and that will be your chance to sit nearby and talk for a bit) (time is your ally - so just take your time...) Link to post Share on other sites
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