Lostweekend Posted November 10, 2015 Share Posted November 10, 2015 I'm trying to move on. At this stage, I don't think things will work out. However, we started talking to each other again over text. I'm not saying he wants to get back together but we are not strangers anymore. I was surprised how he texted me out of the blue and unblocked me, I thought we'd never be in contact again. Girl, I hear you! First love and everything that comes with it! My advice to you is to NOT beg and plead again. Go about your life, hang out with friends, do fun stuff. You can be happy again, I promise!!! Yes, he got back in touch and be cautious so that you don´t get sucked in again. Don´t try to analyze his intentions. Lord knows what he´s thinking. Maybe he truly wants your friendship. Maybe he missed you begging him to come back. The only way you will move past this is to not "give a hoot" about what is going on in that head of his and focus on what is going on with you! There are other things in this world that will make you happy so go after that. I remember my first love and heartbreak. It hurt like hell. All I know is that nothing good will come out of it if you beg someone to date you or love you. He said he wanted to date others, so let him have it. What you need to focus on is what works for you!! You mentioned something about wanting to tell him that you have changed. What do you have to change? Nothing!! You just want different things. Never settle for less or lower your own standards to please someone else! Stick to your guns!!! Wishing you all the best! It will get better and especially if you live your life and stay true to yourself!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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