Lobouspo Posted October 22, 2015 Share Posted October 22, 2015 Hey guys I've posted a couple threads about a woman I met online in London. We're talking again and making plans to to get together when I travel there. The problem is, I'm feeling more frustrated, depressed and lonely as ever. I feel so torn, part of me really wants to try, but we still get into arguments too often, and it doesn't take much from me to really set her off. I really want to go NC , go to London alone and enjoy myself, but I'm really worried about getting homesick and more lonely. Besides being there alone will just be a big reminder of her. Almost just wanna cancel the whole dam thing , retreat into my little world and lick my wounds. :-(.....Any advice or support would be greatly appreciated Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted October 22, 2015 Share Posted October 22, 2015 Just stay home, and send me your ticket. I'd be delighted to spend the time in London and would enjoy it all the more knowing I'd be saving you from making a big mistake if you were to hook up again with that broad. Seriously, Lobouspo. Get a grip. You have a chance to go and take in the sights in one of the greatest cities in the world -- AND once you do, you'll have the satisfaction of having conquered it and your fears all on your own. That's the kind of gift no one else can give you and few have a chance to experience. Hitch up your big boy pants, and regain your self-respect, bro. Time to "man up." Best, TMichaels 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SandraTempleton Posted October 22, 2015 Share Posted October 22, 2015 Hi Lou, I saw the other thread you posted questioning whether you should go to London solo or not. I really think you should. And I saw a lot of cool LSers said they would love to meet you and take you out. Why not take them up on it? Traveling alone need not be a lonely experience. That being said, I don't think you should meet up with this girl. Sounds like you guys are already having problems and arguing a lot. I just don't understand how it's going to get better meeting in person. Plus what if you guys meet up and get back together temporarily and then you go home and break up again in a few months. I think it's time to go NC with her and enjoy your trip solo. Have you met in person before? Do you mind my asking how old you are? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SandraTempleton Posted October 22, 2015 Share Posted October 22, 2015 P.S. I see you are 41 on your profile and you are a cute guy. I say go to London and meet the locals, maybe chat up a few British girls. And come home confident and happy and try to find a local lady 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 Is this the lady who is still with an ex....? Seriously, cut your losses. Go NC with her, then go to London and enjoy yourself WITHOUT her! Link to post Share on other sites
Ryyrich11 Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 I was with a girl I met 2yrs ago...haven't left each other's side since day we met ...and tht is no exaggeration ...we moved to txt and they put her on different depression meds which made her nuts ...so for last month I have been in pa her in tx... This ldr is horrible ...I am a very out going person and always have to be doing something ...her she always had to stay in...well since I left she had been out doin **** tht ..I begged her to go and so ...the way she has me leave was she called my mom to see if mom wanted me to visit...my aunt moved in and she has hospice ...she tried to get me to go to rehab for drinkin ..bs ...and then I grabbed her cuz she was out of her mind ..she called cops ..I got in trouble ....so I got about and flew home to pa... But since the first week ...she has been out like crazy...she disappeared all day one sat..then just said she went shopping for play shirts ..but not to be goin out ...then next day was at bar were she went with a couple and her .. Took a pic 4 glasses 4 stralks ...so I'd guess 4 ppl the next week she bought pj,s...then 8:30 on saT..got super short on txt ..first said sorry ...then she was downstairs 2nd txt ...3rd downstairs with neighbor ,...4th she was downstairs at neighbors ..in pjs... She was talkin crazy **** But I hated when we moved to tx ...I knew no one I have million friends here ..and really close with fam ..I loved weather and ppl their just wasn't home Link to post Share on other sites
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