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Should you break No Contact when you know all hope is lost?!


ConfusedInOC

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I'm here so that one of you people will tell my ex to come back lol :)

 

Anyways, I'm having fun regardless of him. I was picturing my husband last night sleeping next to me, and I dont think I could ever trust him again. He would need to show me that he was truely sorry for everything that he's done and only then could I begin to trust him. But, it's almost 4 months now, and I doubt he's coming back. It's a shame because I'm actually feeling a lot better than I have in years. C'est la vie :)

 

We still have to settle a lot of stuff, havent even began. He IM's me out of the blue once in a while when I'm at work saying he wants to come over with the painter, but then never follows through. I have no clue what that's all about.

 

Part of me realizes that I'm going to have more fun if he doesnt come back. Kind of sad.

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ConfusedInOC
Originally posted by Miffy

I find I am ok then slip into 'shall I contact mode'. A dangerous mood but if I can get by and do something else, read one of my self help books oir similar it passes.

 

Some days I am strong, other days I am weak. It's peaks and valleys with me. I just pray for the day when I don't even think about her anymore and there is no pain.

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Originally posted by Mz. Pixie

Did you change your avie because you were getting hit on too much? ;)

 

Yeah - how come you went back to this picture? Dude - you're way younger in this picture. Stop living in your youth! Wear your age like a badge of pride! :p

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Today I wondered about the smae thing, but you know what I came up with, I imagined I called him, and then I thought what would that really accomplish in the long run think about it

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Originally posted by Pocky

Yeah - how come you went back to this picture? Dude - you're way younger in this picture. Stop living in your youth! Wear your age like a badge of pride! :p

 

This avatar is about 10 months old.

 

And no, I wasn't getting hit on.

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