Author funpeople Posted October 26, 2015 Author Share Posted October 26, 2015 So I haven't told you of evidence that she's not cheating. She's always very affectionate and tells me she loves me all the time. She's always worried that I'll cheat on her (which may not be evidence). Anytime I've sort of checked up on her by calling her, she wasn't doing anything wrong. I've never detected anything wrong sexually. Would be good to get some feedback from you guys on the above list. Link to post Share on other sites
Try Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 So our relationship is teetering on divorce but not over yet. You may not have filed, but based on the dynamics of what you have said, even if by some amazing thing she is not cheating, it is over. Sorry, but unless there is a major shift in her attitude, there is little hope. The question is not if your current relationship with her is over yet. The question is if you can (and want to) start a new relationship with her. That is how you have to look at it. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted October 26, 2015 Share Posted October 26, 2015 So I haven't told you of evidence that she's not cheating. She's always very affectionate and tells me she loves me all the time. She's always worried that I'll cheat on her (which may not be evidence). Anytime I've sort of checked up on her by calling her, she wasn't doing anything wrong. I've never detected anything wrong sexually. Would be good to get some feedback from you guys on the above list. Proves nothing either way ... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
veran Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 So I haven't told you of evidence that she's not cheating. She's always very affectionate and tells me she loves me all the time. She's always worried that I'll cheat on her (which may not be evidence). Anytime I've sort of checked up on her by calling her, she wasn't doing anything wrong. I've never detected anything wrong sexually. Would be good to get some feedback from you guys on the above list. Pleasant. Doesn't rule out cheating though. Her behavior with others up until now isn't reassuring. Link to post Share on other sites
lolablue17 Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 So I haven't told you of evidence that she's not cheating. She's always very affectionate and tells me she loves me all the time. She's always worried that I'll cheat on her (which may not be evidence). Anytime I've sort of checked up on her by calling her, she wasn't doing anything wrong. I've never detected anything wrong sexually. Would be good to get some feedback from you guys on the above list. But what is her explanation to the main problem? What is her reason to present herself as single? (Not only on FB status, but also in conversations when she literally presented herself as single) Why? Maybe because of the green dragon that comes every sunday to make peace between the dwarfs and the moon knights? Or because Merlin the magician gave her a potion? There is only one possible reason for a married woman to hide her marriage, and that reason is never innocent. Link to post Share on other sites
fellini Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 There is only one possible reason for a married woman to hide her marriage, and that reason is never innocent. There is always more than one possible reason, and for men, equally. And adding in that it is a huge social network, there are even more. Our inability to imagine one does not make her guilty of anything. Link to post Share on other sites
m.snow Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 Call her out~ call her out for having set her facebook status on single! call her out for having a solo picture while married! just no. If your in love with someone you should not be a shamed about plastering your love for them all over social media. Question? how about you? is your facebook plastered with both your pictures. how about your status? :facepalm: if your facebook isn't a picture of both of you together. Calling you out to. Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey born raised Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 Hi, it seems you have two major problems, you have discussed the cheating but her pretending to be single is the much bigger. Why is she doing that? A marriage is an all in event. I wonder if either of you Understand this. You seem to have a better handle on this, but she is clueless. Regardless of the lie detector: Practice the 180, no sex, no cuddling, No toxic friends, complete transparency. Can you discuss why she is pretending to be single? Link to post Share on other sites
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