Author heartbrokenkc Posted November 4, 2015 Author Share Posted November 4, 2015 Anyone know how divorce process works? She served and I have responded. The next thing is turning in our debts/assets & parenting plan. People that want divorce are you typically wanting to find ways to speed it up as fast as possible? In no way I really want it but I always ask her what's next when are you getting this done? I know it's the end but seeing her just pisses me off because she wasted my time being married to her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author heartbrokenkc Posted November 19, 2015 Author Share Posted November 19, 2015 So...time has come that my wife should be able to manage care and take our daughter to school when she has her. Her scheduled is supposed to be fix by now but she asked me again to wake up at 5am so she can drop our kid off with me to take her to school. She also text me what does our daughter need for basketball practice. Im thinking this isn't hard to figure out clothes and tennis shoes... I do not get what she is doing I try to have no contact with her but she keeps texting me over the dumbest things and not taking responsibility for her time. I ignored all the messages but how more clear can I make it to her to leave me alone... I know she is using me but I just want to tell her to go ask her new boyfriend to help her out (sounds jealous) but I'm over it and only reason I know this because my daughter tells me things and if the wife can bring another man around my daughter so quick she can ask him for help. It's F'd up she can do that so quick because this is so confusing & new for my daughter. She has her only half the time and she could use her own time to be with the guy but isn't for some reason. I'm concern for my daughters emotions but the reality is when she's with her mom I can't control who's around them regardless if that other person is good or bad. Link to post Share on other sites
luck1978 Posted November 19, 2015 Share Posted November 19, 2015 Mate, this seems all too common. I myself am in a WAW situation little over 2 months NC luckily no children. The one thing you need to keep at the forefront of your mind is that you have been treated like absolute ****, you deserve far better and you will get what you deserve (which is far better) and so will she. Be happy in knowing Karma will resolve all things in the near or distant future and be the best you can for yourself and your daughter, but definitely not for her, keep your head held high and chin up ;-) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author heartbrokenkc Posted December 4, 2015 Author Share Posted December 4, 2015 Mate, this seems all too common. I myself am in a WAW situation little over 2 months NC luckily no children. The one thing you need to keep at the forefront of your mind is that you have been treated like absolute ****, you deserve far better and you will get what you deserve (which is far better) and so will she. Be happy in knowing Karma will resolve all things in the near or distant future and be the best you can for yourself and your daughter, but definitely not for her, keep your head held high and chin up ;-) It's just so hard! It does get easier with every passing day. I know I'm blinded because I love her so much and all my friends say she is treating me horrible. I just believed everything she had told me but it's just all a lie now and I want to see the good in people but still learning to accept the reality of it. In no way I am putting my life on hold for her because of this but man it makes me wonder how long will it be before I move on to another relationship but I'm not looking for that anytime soon in the near future. I feel like it will be years! But it does give me hope when I'm in my 40s that I will get a 30 year old lol! Link to post Share on other sites
luck1978 Posted December 6, 2015 Share Posted December 6, 2015 Yeah, try downloading a few dating apps, not for dating if you're not ready yet, just to get you starting to look what the world has to offer again. It has helped me quite a lot when I feel miserable, I find my hope returns and I even think I will get myself fully out there in the new year. Link to post Share on other sites
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