sportyguy23 Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 I am in day 4 of the no contact rule. My ex girlfriend moved out of our flat 3 weeks ago and we were texting and speaking on the phone in the build up to the no contact. I realised I still wanted her but she wasn't having any of it. She gave off mixed signals even though she had changed her phone number but kept the old one as back up. she called me up and spoke for 1hr 30 then 2 days later told me she was dating someone else. this is just a few weeks since the break up. So I initiated no contact for my own sanity, plus she was adamant she didn't want me back. I guess she is still hurting from feeling rejected by me when we living together. I do still want her back but I realise I have to get strong myself during the no contact time and then try to become friends as a starting point. I know it doesn't look good with her changing her number and dating so soon but I know still loves me heaps and I am trying to tell myself she is only dating another guy because it fills the hole in her life. Any advice on no contact and staying strong. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 Stop kidding yourself that she still loves you. Holding on to that false hope is only keeping you emotionally tied to her & hindering your ability to heal. Lick your wounds. Grieve for the loss of your relationship but move forward, not backwards. Link to post Share on other sites
boltam Posted October 27, 2015 Share Posted October 27, 2015 I am trying to tell myself she is only dating another guy because it fills the hole in her life. . You might want to try a different figure of speech. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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