candie13 Posted October 28, 2015 Share Posted October 28, 2015 Or just... misbehave. Once. Take all of your salary - and maybe even make a small loan behind his back to pay your attorney, pay for that skin procedure... and see what happens. Will he die of a stroke ? Oh and go to the spa with your gfs and pay for a nice massage. See what happens. Live a little... . Totally misbehave, OP. It'll do you good ! Link to post Share on other sites
Author mydestiny Posted October 28, 2015 Author Share Posted October 28, 2015 I think I worry about being alone. My current boss recently hired me and I worry about what happens if I collapse emotionally. However I will admit that I don't work nearly as hard as I should because I'm constantly trying to do what he wants. He gets upset if I have to drive more than an hour away from work. I have a big convention to attend next year for a week. My boss began texting me about dates and flights. He saw it and asked why I wasn't allowing him to come? I told him he is coming, but we have to book separately. He went crazy because it's possible we wouldn't sit together on the plane. you are a grown woman. stop making stupid excuses and go to the bank and get a different bank account. Talk to your employer and tell them to send the salary on this different bank account. He only controls you if you allow it. So don't. Link to post Share on other sites
anika99 Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 OP for the hundredth time, nothing about this situation is going to change until you do something to change it. Are you planning to spend your entire life living this way and doing nothing about it but complaining on forums? Move back home and be a mom to your kid. Your child deserves you, this guy doesn't. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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