SixxChick Posted October 28, 2015 Share Posted October 28, 2015 (edited) Hello. First, off, I am a strong woman. I have a law degree, own a business, have a nice home, etc., etc. However, I was the victim of a narcissist. I broke up with him a month ago after a pretty shallow two-year relationship. I had to. He was broke. He became homeless after a failing business, is a terrible father, used me, and now owes me over $5,000. (Fortunately, for me, he is terrifed of me and is paying me $200 a month.) But it still does not diminish the pain from the sting. I've been doing everything I should be doing (friends, working out, new hobbies), but there is still that confusing void that I can't seem to fill. I'm really not getting this about myself because he really had nothing to offer me. And it showed in the end. I am not really coping like I should be. Any further suggestions? I just needed to vent. Thanks for listening. Edited October 28, 2015 by SixxChick Link to post Share on other sites
mystikmind2005 Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 Perhaps 'emotional time' is different to 'logical time'. Most people i think will end a relationship according to emotional time, their emotions force the decision. In your case, you have ended the relationship more because of logic because you can see it is not good, but your emotions have not caught up with that yet.... i think possibly this is what you are going through?? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author SixxChick Posted October 29, 2015 Author Share Posted October 29, 2015 I think you are right. The heart is a deep ocean. Thank you for the reply. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BelleSkye Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 I had someone like that in my life in 2010, was so relieved and happy when they were gone. I moved on so easily. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
loveiswar101 Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 Yep...Give yourself more time. Pat yourself on back as your doing all the right things. Try your hardest to avoid him as much as possible even with the debt owing. Your be fine. Keep busy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author SixxChick Posted October 29, 2015 Author Share Posted October 29, 2015 Thank you everyone who took the time to reply. It means a lot to me. I hope I can support you in any way in the future. Be well. Link to post Share on other sites
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