jaynesnow Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 Am in a LDR with my bf..when i went visiting him , i found a picture of a lady on our bed in his phone. when i asked about the photo, first,he said he did not know about the photo and the lady but the pillows on the photo resembled ours. He promised that before the day ends he would have given me a proof that the photo was not his. Later on , he comes and tells me that the photo was put there by a friend of his named Martin. Asked martin and he said the photo was his taken at his place . When i asked for proof he wasnt able to send me a pic of his bed n pillow. My instincts told me that my bf was lying so after two weeks of not finding some truth i threatened to break up with him , when he finally told me that my friend was out drinking when she couldnt get home because she was too drunk to get to her parents so he offered to pic her up..brought her to his place .So he says she slept on our bed and took her the photo but he didnt go back to sleep till she woke up and they left the house. the lady who is my friend swears the never slept together, same as to what he says but i find it had to believe because the sheet they used had stains that show cums...if it was harmless, why did he have to lie about the photo being Martin's. Why didnt he call me to tell me he was going to pic my friend and she was going to sleep at his place? AM CONFUSED... PLEASE HELP Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 I think you already know the answer to this. Innocent people do not lie. Innocent people do not require 24 hours to invent a cover story and ask their friends to cover for them. Innocent people do not make you think they are lying. Dump him, and the "friend". 1 Link to post Share on other sites
hippychick3 Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 He obviously cheated on you. I think you already know that and are grasping at another explanation that will prevent you from going through the pain of a breakup. There is no other explanation. Sorry 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted October 29, 2015 Share Posted October 29, 2015 He lied to you when your first confronted him and even got his friend to lie for him. Then when confronted again he comes up with another lie. It's a lie because if it were so innocent for the second explanation then there was no need to come up with an elaborate lie for the first one. Get it? Like I always say if it doesn't feel right it's not. Even if nothing happened he lied to you, and he put himself in a compromising situation with this girl....bad enough don't you think? now dump him. Link to post Share on other sites
mystikmind2005 Posted October 30, 2015 Share Posted October 30, 2015 I am someone who is usually very generous with benefit of the doubt, but not this time! If his story was true, it seems reasonable that he would have texted you at the time of the developing situation, because, if true, it is quite an extremely interesting thing that a guy would definitely want to talk about, and yet he did not. Link to post Share on other sites
h0000 Posted October 30, 2015 Share Posted October 30, 2015 Crystal clear that he lied, his friend lied, your friend also lied. What a horrible bf and friend you have. Sorry for you 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted October 30, 2015 Share Posted October 30, 2015 Oh, come on now. What is confusing about this? You're not that gullible. Yes, I'd say without a doubt that he cheated. An honest person doesn't need until "the end of the day" to give you evidence. Cheaters and liars needs that much time to come up with a cover story. His is so pathetic it's laughable. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author jaynesnow Posted October 30, 2015 Author Share Posted October 30, 2015 I think you already know the answer to this. Innocent people do not lie. Innocent people do not require 24 hours to invent a cover story and ask their friends to cover for them. Innocent people do not make you think they are lying. Dump him, and the "friend". thanks alot pegnose..i have dumped him. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted October 30, 2015 Share Posted October 30, 2015 thanks alot pegnose..i have dumped him. Smart woman. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author jaynesnow Posted October 30, 2015 Author Share Posted October 30, 2015 Thanks guys....as much as it hurts, al be okay and al try to move on past this. i trusted him too much, Link to post Share on other sites
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