circlesinfinity Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Senario, We work together and you spark up a conversation with me one day...about something random. I feel happy because I've noticed you for a while. It is not that I'm disinterested because of the day you chose to talk to me but I was tired that day and you could pick up on my genuine and kind nature. So one day I quit but I see you in a club. It is a club that I start to go to often, nor because you are there but I always seem to enjoy myself at this club. One time you see me dancing with a family member, you come up to hug me and I hlush and talk about you all evening. It is obvious that you have some level of interest in me, that's been there for a while. I finally ask to keep in touch with you with your phone number. You seem hesitant but I text and you only contact me once and ignot me when I say hey and see if you want to hang out. There comes the part when I don't have time for you... ...ignore my request on social media and my text messages but when you see me, you follow me around and try to steal a dance from me. When you see my mother in the grocery store you follow her around because you KNOW that's my mom. Why not just ask her how I am doing?!! Link to post Share on other sites
impatiently_patient Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 I unknowingly ingested shrooms and I'm watching Gray's Anatomy(?). Was I right? Link to post Share on other sites
Author circlesinfinity Posted November 1, 2015 Author Share Posted November 1, 2015 I unknowingly ingested shrooms and I'm watching Gray's Anatomy(?). Was I right? The sad part is that it would make more sense if your statement was true. Once again, no one can tell me why this has happened. Link to post Share on other sites
bluefeather Posted November 1, 2015 Share Posted November 1, 2015 Sounds like you might be reading too much into this person's actions. People can casually hug and dance at clubs. It doesn't mean they want you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author circlesinfinity Posted November 1, 2015 Author Share Posted November 1, 2015 (edited) Sounds like you might be reading too much into this person's actions. People can casually hug and dance at clubs. It doesn't mean they want you. You are right, but then he followed my mom around the grocery store once and always stares and acts on edge when he sees me. If he doesn't want me in that way why couldn't we hang out? I never told him I was interested in him...so as far as I know he doesn't know. Edited November 1, 2015 by circlesinfinity Link to post Share on other sites
loverboy69 Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 You are right, but then he followed my mom around the grocery store once and always stares and acts on edge when he sees me. If he doesn't want me in that way why couldn't we hang out? I never told him I was interested in him...so as far as I know he doesn't know. Maybe your mom is hot? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bluefeather Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 You are right, but then he followed my mom around the grocery store once and always stares and acts on edge when he sees me. If he doesn't want me in that way why couldn't we hang out? I never told him I was interested in him...so as far as I know he doesn't know. Following your mom around or acting "on edge" aren't signs that he likes you either... I've gone to grocery stores before when I happen to go down the exact same isles as other people. It may look like I'm following them, but I'm not, and it's really annoying... And if he doesn't want you in that way, then that's a good reason to not want to hang out with you. Some guys will only hang out with girls if they want them. Scratch that, a LOT of guys will only hang out with girls if they want them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author circlesinfinity Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 Maybe your mom is hot? Yes, my mom is gorgeous. ☺...but he knows that is my mom, he could not hide that he was following her?! Lol It is ok though, this is an older post and I think I'm over him now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author circlesinfinity Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 Following your mom around or acting "on edge" aren't signs that he likes you either... I've gone to grocery stores before when I happen to go down the exact same isles as other people. It may look like I'm following them, but I'm not, and it's really annoying... And if he doesn't want you in that way, then that's a good reason to not want to hang out with you. Some guys will only hang out with girls if they want them. Scratch that, a LOT of guys will only hang out with girls if they want them. It is okay. He did show a lot of signs that he was interested in me...trust me. He is 19 and I am 28 so maybe it's a maturity thing. I am over it and will just be friends with guys. This way I can get to know them without them knowing what I'm really up to, lol. ? It may be a lot of hurt feelings though because I'm not dating anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Author circlesinfinity Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 (edited) I feel like all these comments are made to hurt me for whatever reason...I found he does like me and really needed the guidance. When I wrote this I was also really upset and couldn't get out of bed. Maybe consider what people maybe going through before being jerks. I honestly DO NOT know how men are and like I said I will just keep a bunch of friends because apparently no one can answer me but my immediate relatives and people that see/know me IRL. Yes my mom is gorgeous to me and many people...I have been asked if I was a model etc. but unfortunately we both are fighting deep self esteem issues. I don't know when a guy is staring at me, my mom tells me if someone smiled or was flirting because I'm oblivious to it Isn't everyone on this website?! Edited November 8, 2015 by circlesinfinity Link to post Share on other sites
bluefeather Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 I feel like all these comments are made to hurt me for whatever reason...I found he does like me and really needed the guidance. When I wrote this I was also really upset and couldn't get out of bed. Maybe consider what people maybe going through before being jerks. I honestly DO NOT know how men are and like I said I will just keep a bunch of friends because apparently no one can answer me but my immediate relatives and people that see/know me IRL. Yes my mom is gorgeous to me and many people...I have been asked if I was a model etc. but unfortunately we both are fighting deep self esteem issues. I don't know when a guy is staring at me, my mom tells me if someone smiled or was flirting because I'm oblivious to it Isn't everyone on this website?! You're calling me a jerk for giving my honest opinion.. wow. Ok, well I will just stop trying to give you advice then. Link to post Share on other sites
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