robaday Posted November 2, 2015 Share Posted November 2, 2015 Hi, This isn't about a breakup, so apologies if it's in the wrong place. It is about grief and losing a loved one though. My sis passed away eight years ago this past weekend. It was an unexpected sudden death which no one saw coming. She was young (early twenties) and worked in the medical field. For a long period I struggled with depression after, and while I have come through it and changed my life around, I still struggle with accepting it, I have grieved and I know logically that she is not around anymore. I also know why she passed away and the post mortum report. But I haven't accepted that that's that, a+b doesnt equal c in my head. Perhaps part of the reason is I moved countries after it happened and have never returned to live where I grew up apart from brief holidays. So I almost feel like it's frozen in time, that no time has gone by and right now it still feels like yesterday I got the call. I simply cannot believe eight years of my life have gone by since she was here. Guess what I'm asking is to those who have lost a loved one suddenly. Did you ever grow to accept it? Link to post Share on other sites
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