Author Brady_to_Moss Posted November 29, 2015 Author Share Posted November 29, 2015 In time, you will. I would just cut the cord and start moving on now. You can give yourself time to feel better and when you're ready, you can re-focus your energy on finding a great girl who wouldn't dream of requesting space from you. That's what i am trying! I am pretty much moving on now...when and if she txts me next..i am just not going to respond Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted December 2, 2015 Author Share Posted December 2, 2015 (edited) In time, you will. I would just cut the cord and start moving on now. You can give yourself time to feel better and when you're ready, you can re-focus your energy on finding a great girl who wouldn't dream of requesting space from you. Found out there was another guy all along.. through a FB post and other things I saw lately....even when I met her months and months ago..i was just the side guy because I assume they were having problems most likely. ANd the more I think of it...there were clues a while ago I guess I just overlooked that I see now and say...yup.. So I sent 1 last txt and just said. Thank you for lying to me. I really appreciate it and how much you hurt me. Have a nice life. And blocked her on everything. Twitter...snap...phone ect. Moving along! Edited December 2, 2015 by Brady_to_Moss Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 Chalk that one up to experience. Whenever someone says they need space, there is almost certainly someone else involved. In an LDR, doubly so. Good job having the last word and blocking her. Now you just have to ignore anything she might manage to get through your blocks. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted December 3, 2015 Author Share Posted December 3, 2015 Chalk that one up to experience. Whenever someone says they need space, there is almost certainly someone else involved. In an LDR, doubly so. Good job having the last word and blocking her. Now you just have to ignore anything she might manage to get through your blocks. If she does i just ain't going back. She crushed me. I am no longer jumping oceans for her...she will realize in time what she screwed up with me. I just feel bad for the guy she cheat on with me as well. From what i gathered they have been together like 5 years...if only he knew...yet he has NO idea... Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted December 3, 2015 Share Posted December 3, 2015 You're well rid of her, OP. She is not who she presented herself to be. It will sting for a little while but with time you will feel okay again. Now you know you can trust your instincts when something doesn't feel right. Have you also deleted her on FB? . Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted December 3, 2015 Author Share Posted December 3, 2015 You're well rid of her, OP. She is not who she presented herself to be. It will sting for a little while but with time you will feel okay again. Now you know you can trust your instincts when something doesn't feel right. Have you also deleted her on FB? . yes i have Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted December 4, 2015 Author Share Posted December 4, 2015 yes i have I actually forgot to block her on IG...but she did that to me today...one less thing i had to do LOL Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 I actually forgot to block her on IG...but she did that to me today...one less thing i had to do LOL This is a good thing, in the end. There's no reason to stay up-to-date on her. Onward and upward! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
almond Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 What a horrible girl. I'd tell her boyfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted December 4, 2015 Author Share Posted December 4, 2015 What a horrible girl. I'd tell her boyfriend. It crossed my mind..but i am better than that. Although i do really hope somehow he finds out on his own..but i am not sure he ever will. Lord knows how many times she's cheated on him before me Link to post Share on other sites
RkJose Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 Bro best advice i can give you now is, better finding out now than later. She was not worthy of you and you were right all along to feel her distancing from you. I also have a LDR and i know taking it fast is extremely tempting as when you meet you miss each other so much that the moments are so incredible that when you re far away you keep only those moments in your head and forget about the bad ones and fights. But you know, you didnt even know if you two were gonna work. We need to take it slow,.. There are a bunch of women out there and we sure will know when you meet the right one after years together, not months. Know what you felt was passion and that is was fun and good while it lasted. Now learn your lesson and takes things slow for a girl that will show real love and caring for you next time! Move on and stay strong there are so many out there! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted December 6, 2015 Author Share Posted December 6, 2015 Bro best advice i can give you now is, better finding out now than later. She was not worthy of you and you were right all along to feel her distancing from you. I also have a LDR and i know taking it fast is extremely tempting as when you meet you miss each other so much that the moments are so incredible that when you re far away you keep only those moments in your head and forget about the bad ones and fights. But you know, you didnt even know if you two were gonna work. We need to take it slow,.. There are a bunch of women out there and we sure will know when you meet the right one after years together, not months. Know what you felt was passion and that is was fun and good while it lasted. Now learn your lesson and takes things slow for a girl that will show real love and caring for you next time! Move on and stay strong there are so many out there! yup...learning lesson. Just sucks because it was and seemed to be going so well. It sucks because now i just don't have many people to talk too. We would always talk or txt at night for hours ect about anything and everything. Now it's back to good ole nothing lol. Of course i still miss parts about her ect..but i know those will go with time Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted January 9, 2016 Author Share Posted January 9, 2016 (edited) So just a update..since i have cut her out and her "breaking up BS email-Sent a email with more excuses as to why she pulled away" i haven't talked or thought about her. Then believe it or not..i saw her at a sporting event here in my area. A big sporting event about a week ago. Now this is Boston..and she lives in NC. Her mom lives here and this was the event she was suppose to go to with me that she made up another BS excuse why she couldn't come up ect. I didn't walk up and talk to her..i walked directly around her so she couldn't see me...but what are the odds? 60K people and i see her 15 ft from me. And it brought her back into my mind and i don't know why and i hate it. I was doing fine...Now i feel like back to square one. A couple nights ago someone i follow on twitter was talking to her just like we talked in the beginning ( i still saw the tweets even though SHE is blocked)..and this is NOT her other guy. So it made me feel better that we never worked out because she seems to talk to every guy and want to be with them and sleep with the. But that little run in set me back a bit...she had no problem moving on because she does this to a lot of guys i am realizing. (better to see this now then after we were together for a WHILE) So that helps a bit. Edited January 9, 2016 by Brady_to_Moss Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted November 4, 2016 Author Share Posted November 4, 2016 Update from a while ago: Still not dating and really no interest from this entire situation..but it is what it is. BUT i found out she ended up having a kid like 3 months ago. So she was with some guy other than me...and now has a kid and the father is no where around (why she dropped off the earth on me) I am so thankful she got rid of me because she is a mess and it made me a better person from this enitre situation. So in the end..it worked out for the better for me. She was/is an awful person and i believe in karma. I will just leave it at that Link to post Share on other sites
TheTraveler Posted November 6, 2016 Share Posted November 6, 2016 Update from a while ago: Still not dating and really no interest from this entire situation..but it is what it is. BUT i found out she ended up having a kid like 3 months ago. So she was with some guy other than me...and now has a kid and the father is no where around (why she dropped off the earth on me) I am so thankful she got rid of me because she is a mess and it made me a better person from this enitre situation. So in the end..it worked out for the better for me. She was/is an awful person and i believe in karma. I will just leave it at that You're still angry. Let it go Link to post Share on other sites
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