man4s Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 (edited) Would you ladies date me? I'm 5'10'' 165 lb lean body. I'm respectful person but kind of reserved. I was turned down but too many women Edited November 3, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator removed link ~6 Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 Would you ladies date me? I'm 5'10'' 165 lb lean body. I'm respectful person but kind of reserved. I was turned down but too many women That's hardly enough to go on. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
S_A Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 Reserved as in shy? And by "kind of" do you mean "very"? That could do it. Link to post Share on other sites
oldshirt Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 I'm a straight dude but you seem perfectly normal and healthy looking to me. If you are getting the brush offs from women it's not due to your looks. You look fine. The catch for men is men have to be more than just good looking (women can get by with only being good looking) men also have to have social skills, social status, reasonably educated, good career, respected by other men, have interesting lifestyle and activities etc etc. Work on your social and interpersonal skills and work on becoming more assertive and proactive in interacting with women on a personal level and you'll do fine. Link to post Share on other sites
Author man4s Posted November 3, 2015 Author Share Posted November 3, 2015 I'm a straight dude but you seem perfectly normal and healthy looking to me. If you are getting the brush offs from women it's not due to your looks. You look fine. The catch for men is men have to be more than just good looking (women can get by with only being good looking) men also have to have social skills, social status, reasonably educated, good career, respected by other men, have interesting lifestyle and activities etc etc. Work on your social and interpersonal skills and work on becoming more assertive and proactive in interacting with women on a personal level and you'll do fine. Thanks for your input. Even though I'm shy around attractive women, I don't do bad in the social department for an outsider given that I grew up in a conservative Muslim country where I did not have the chance to interact with women. Link to post Share on other sites
juicygirl Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 You're a good looking guy. I would say it's a confidence issue. It's ok to be shy but if you want the girl you'll have to loosen up a bit. Maybe try just talking to girls for general conversation first. Then move on to girls you like. Link to post Share on other sites
RecentChange Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 I think you are a pretty good looking dude. How long have you been here? I think it can take a while to grow used to new social norms and customs - and with that will come confidence - which can go a long way with women. I agree, start with just trying to chit chat with girls to up your comfort level. (And hey, a handsome Persian guy started chatting with me regularly.... Got more comfortable and flirty as time went on... And one thing eventually led to another!) Get out there and talk to them, practice your flirting. I know rejection stings, but its part of the process (you can learn what tends to work and what doesn't). Link to post Share on other sites
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