FWX Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 I am in high school and I had this crush on this girl. Five months ago, I asked her out and she politely declined, even apologizing for it afterwards. She moved to a different school over the summer, but we've stayed fairly close, and I've met her on one or two occassions by coincidence, and we seem to hit it off. A few weeks back, there was a game at my school and she was playing. I wasn't able to watch it, but I texted her afterwards to see how the game turned out. We continued to text, and at one point, she suggested that we meet up, in a flirty way, and of course I agreed. All the signals seemed to be there, and we schedule our "meeting" for this week. Today, I reconfirmed with her the time and place, but today, her attitude seemed a bit, different, suggesting that we should perhaps invite others. It caught me a bit off guard - she seems to display all the signs that she's interested in me for the past two weeks in texting. So now I don't know how to approach her when I meet her. How do I find out whether she's interested or not, because I'm far too afraid that if I ask at the wrong time and get declined again, I may not have a third chance to do it. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 She may like you but is afraid of a relationship & what that means. As a teen I freaked out when a guy called me his GF. I felt like I was losing myself. Just go slow. Spend time with her. Talk. Eventually ask her to a school dance or something. Don't jump all the way to a relationship, going out or going steady etc. Also proceed cautiously & with her permission before kissing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author FWX Posted November 4, 2015 Author Share Posted November 4, 2015 She may like you but is afraid of a relationship & what that means. As a teen I freaked out when a guy called me his GF. I felt like I was losing myself. Just go slow. Spend time with her. Talk. Eventually ask her to a school dance or something. Don't jump all the way to a relationship, going out or going steady etc. Also proceed cautiously & with her permission before kissing. I can definitely see your angle here, but I'd like to add a note that she has been in a relationship before. Perhaps she's too afraid to jump into another one instantly again? In the meantime, I'll keep your advice in mind. Link to post Share on other sites
Author FWX Posted November 5, 2015 Author Share Posted November 5, 2015 Is there any other explanation or theory about this? Link to post Share on other sites
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