peakyboo Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Cheers to you! Thanks for reading my post. I'm a 20 years old guy and I consider myself a man with high standards. I've been in relationships with girls but I got bored quickly, they were not even close to what I really wanted. Recently I dumped a girl after a couple of weeks dating, I just got bored and she was not ok for me. I find myself entering in relationships wher I could not careless about her. For sure I care, but I think caring becomes something important after some time in a relationship. I shall present you about myself, probably you, experienced users of such forum, could give me a tip, hint or tricks! I'm 20 and I'm studying foreign languages and literature at university. While being a student, I also work as a marketing and merchandising agent (I love marketing and I'm developing personally into this area) and this is something important for me, for my future. I'm not narcisistic but I like myself, I find myself a cute guy. I take care of myself, I dress really good (I invest money in clothes etc.). My problem is that it's pretty hard for me to find a woman I really really like, to instantly have a huge crush on her. At uni there are lots of cute girls but I just don't find myself approaching them (i really don't like this). I'm very sociable but I don't like going to clubs and massive parties, I don't enjoy it. Practically my problem is that I'm getting intimidated by beautiful girls somehow...but I also have high standars. I don't know why because my social status is near high (middle from medium to high) What is wrong with me chaps, I require help. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 What exactly are you looking for in appearance and quality? Link to post Share on other sites
frogs88 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 If you don't pick 'em out yourself then you'll have to be happy with whatever offers itself on your plate. You can't be all high standards and then sit back and expect those girls just to fall in your lap. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Odinani Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 What are you bringing to the table to justify your unrealistically high standards? Are you a male model, a multi-millionaire or a Harvard graduate? Link to post Share on other sites
Author peakyboo Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 @No Limit She has to be cute and attractive (in my view, that does not include having big tits and nice ass, she has to be cute, naturally beautiful not exagerately using make-up) As for quality, she needs to have good manners, approachable, honesty and for sure creativity. Moreover, I really dislike women who party a lot and fancy getting drunk. (trust me, there are plenty) Probably I'm asking for too much for a 20 years old.... @frogs88 You are right..... Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Either date a (much) older, more mature, settled, emotionally-comfortable, confident established woman - or remain single for at least another 8 years, until you meet someone more your age who has the same standards. Link to post Share on other sites
Author peakyboo Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 @Odinani You missed my point or I was not showing clarity enough in high standars. High standards for me is being picky, not dating with every girl who gives me IOI's or having sex with every girl I can. My reputation is at stake and I can't afford loosing my self esteem dating non convenient chicks. Link to post Share on other sites
Author peakyboo Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 Please don't understand me wrong, I'm not an excentric guy. I'm just trying to find a nice good serious lasting relationship and It's pretty impossible those days at my age Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Please don't understand me wrong, I'm not an excentric guy. I'm just trying to find a nice good serious lasting relationship and It's pretty impossible those days at my age Re-read post #6. I wasn't kidding. Link to post Share on other sites
StBreton Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Ditto ^^^^^ You'd be surprised how many guys do just that because they don't like the games etc of girls 18-23 Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 It sounds like you already know you're not interested in these girls before you even enter into a relationship with them which begs the question WHY bother dating them at all? Where are you meeting these women? What do you think is lacking in them that causes you to be bored of them? Are they not educated enough? Can they not carry a conversation? Bad in bed? What? There is nothing wrong with having standards and being particular about certain attributes you seek in a LT partner as long as they go beyond just the physical. There are plenty of beautiful people on this planet but that doesn't mean they can string two words together to save their lives. You clearly are looking for more. And we all have our version of "the list" so in that regard you're very normal, even for being 20. I agree with the poster who said you need to stop waiting for these quality women to just drop in your lap. It's obvious that isn't working for you. If you know what you're looking for then don't be afraid to be more discerning when it comes to dating. Dating blindly just because or secretly hoping something will just stick eventually is kind of an immature approach. If you keep doing the same things you keep getting the same results. It's just a fact of life. Perhaps it's time to change things up. Time to stop dating women that don't fit the bill and are just filing time for you. Don't be afraid to be more discerning and see what comes of it. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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