what to do;-)

[condor]

Hello,

 

I've posted a couple to times about his girl. Over the weekend she came back to me with a negative answer with regards to starting a relationship. She didnt give me a reason, just said "cant". There is no other person. I basically couldnt stay anymore and she asked me that i wouldnt want to see her based on my reaction to her answer. I couldnt answer, i was still dumbstruck.The next day i sent her a reference to a nice poem, and she looked it up. She sent me a message to say she actually wanted to read something like that and that she thought she would never hear from me again, and is very glad she did.

 

The question is how do i proceed from here, considering i like her still. Well i cant message her or call her for at least this week, as the wound is still raw;-)

 

Should i wait for her to come back to me, send her something cute....we are like two kids in a sandbox playing blissfull unaware of the surroundings when we meet.

 

thanks

c

[Artscrafter]

I haven't seen your other posts about this girl, but it sounds to me like she was pretty firm. You asked for a relationship and she said no.

 

She probably wants to get back in contact with you now (that bit about the poem and so on) because she still wants to be (platonic) friends with you. What she fails to realize is that this is nearly impossible after the guy has asked for something more and been denied.

 

If you want to go back to being her friend then by all means do so. But you'll have to get used to it being just that. I highly doubt you'll get a better result just by asking her again.