Got it Posted November 13, 2015 Share Posted November 13, 2015 Don't be afraid to jump into marriage counseling either. Right now you two are building the foundation of your marriage and you need to address your communication, conflict resolution issues. You need to communicate with your spouse. If you have issues bothering you don't let them build up and build resentment. She is your partner. Your team mate. You two are a team. Approach things as a "we" not an "I". And don't agree to things that you actually aren't okay with. That isn't fair to her or to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Justplainoleme Posted November 13, 2015 Author Share Posted November 13, 2015 We are gonna start looking for a new place, And rent this one out. Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted November 14, 2015 Share Posted November 14, 2015 We are gonna start looking for a new place, And rent this one out. Great idea. Did you talk through it? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Justplainoleme Posted November 14, 2015 Author Share Posted November 14, 2015 She kinda talked and I listened and just agreed, She started crying about me not staying with her through the entire night. Just incredible guilty feeling after that. Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted November 14, 2015 Share Posted November 14, 2015 She kinda talked and I listened and just agreed, She started crying about me not staying with her through the entire night. Just incredible guilty feeling after that. Don't be afraid to voice your opinion though. It's important for both your voices to be heard and I hope you agreed because you do agree and not just for peace. I think if you were able to try and see it from her point of view, that would help you understand as well. Like if you moved into her house and everything was in her taste and style....and then if she wouldn't sleep the night in bed with you..... that would feel a bit hurtful.....but you're on the right path. Always be honest with each other. ...... that's the foundation for a good marriage. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Justplainoleme Posted November 15, 2015 Author Share Posted November 15, 2015 Don't be afraid to voice your opinion though. It's important for both your voices to be heard and I hope you agreed because you do agree and not just for peace. I think if you were able to try and see it from her point of view, that would help you understand as well. Like if you moved into her house and everything was in her taste and style....and then if she wouldn't sleep the night in bed with you..... that would feel a bit hurtful.....but you're on the right path. Always be honest with each other. ...... that's the foundation for a good marriage. Started making an effort to sleep in the same bed with her, She has kicked me out while she has slept a couple times. Rude awakening if you have ever had one. She offered to cancel this cruise and just go somewhere for a couple weeks but I know this is her dream and I told her no, We might never get another chance to do something like this again. But she said she is scared with what happened in France. Link to post Share on other sites
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