outdated Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 I was gonna keep this one to myself, but it's too good not to share with my friends at LS. :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: I think I'll let them sort this one out as I fade away... Ex kept f***ing with my head, so I decided to do a little f***ing of my own. Oh, it's the little victories that are so special... I know, I'm a bad person. But if being bad is wrong, I don't want to be right. So much for reconcilliation! I think no contact is about to end... Link to post Share on other sites
Illusion24 Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 OH no...what did you do???? I hope you know this means war! Sometimes you have to come out losing in order to be a winner and become a stronger person. I'm not going to type and say "oh you did wrong" because I know you're in pain and you're hurting but remember what comes around goes around....If this made you feel better, all props to you!! She may have left you and gone out with another guy, but not your best friend...OUCH, that's hard to take in. Just want you to know any chances you had to get back together are out of the question...Good luck and you know I'm here for you Link to post Share on other sites
FolderWife Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 I'm sorry, but you go boy You weren't hoping to reconcile...were you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author outdated Posted May 25, 2005 Author Share Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by NeverSayNever OH no...what did you do???? I hope you know this means war! Sometimes you have to come out losing in order to be a winner and become a stronger person. I'm not going to type and say "oh you did wrong" because I know you're in pain and you're hurting but remember what comes around goes around. She may have left you and gone out with another guy, but not your best friend...OUCH, that's hard to take in. Just want you to know any chances you had to get back together are out of the question...Good luck and you know I'm here for you I know it probably wasn't the best decision I've made, but the ex has put me through so much pain in the last two months that I just wanted her to feel some too. I know it's selfish and when hindsight kicks in I'm sure I will feel like an ass, but right now, I feel good. She has been so intentionally hurtful lately without any reason. I don't want her back. I wanted my mojo back. And now it is. Link to post Share on other sites
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 WHOOO HOOO!!!!!!! I did the same thing! Just a little gratification for the BS you had to deal with while in the relationship! Plus i was eying his friend ever since we got together....I couldn't wait to f*ck when we broke up!!!! HAHAHAHAH Link to post Share on other sites
Illusion24 Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 I don't want her back. I wanted my mojo back. And now it is. Then in that case...WOOOHOOOO!!!! GET YO EAGLE ON... Link to post Share on other sites
Author outdated Posted May 25, 2005 Author Share Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by Monday I'm sorry, but you go boy You weren't hoping to reconcile...were you? Nope. I did until she came and left again and was so incredibly mean. Link to post Share on other sites
Jadey Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 Wow...........Erm..Yeah ok. Ouch.... Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 Eh to hell with it! While I don't think it says good things about your EX's "Best Friend" I would for real date My EX's Friend.. Link to post Share on other sites
NTB Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 I know, I'm a bad person. But if being bad is wrong, I don't want to be right. good job bro.......i think i need to go out and do the same thing well maybe not the best friend but just get laid Link to post Share on other sites
reservoirdog1 Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 Hey, if she was a total b!tch to you, or cheated on you, then I say, "revenge is sweet." Says a lot worse about her "best friend" than it does you. I had the opportunity about a month ago to sleep with a friend of my ex-wife. Honestly I don't know if they're still in much contact, but they used to be pretty close. I didn't go through with it; won't get into the reasons why, but it WASN'T because of any sense of duty to my ex. Hell, it was flattering enough that this woman wanted to jump my bones. Link to post Share on other sites
Author outdated Posted May 25, 2005 Author Share Posted May 25, 2005 Well I was going out anyhow, so like they say: why not go out with a bang? Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by outdated why not go out with a bang? Literelly! Link to post Share on other sites
Illusion24 Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 :lmao: BANG!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
greenhorn Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 Revenge is the dish best served cold - Kill Bill Revenge - " Sleeping after the breakup with ex's friend" Served cold - " when the ex's friend is her best friend" Good Job, keep it up Link to post Share on other sites
Good Seed Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 Funny how this happened to me recently as well!!!!!!! One of my ex's old best friends came onto me strong. She hung out with this girl everyday of her life. I didnt actually go through with the full body contact part but it was flattering. I dont think my ex will find out about it or even if she does I dont think she will care much. I wish it didnt have to be this way, but she hurt me way too much to begin with. GS Link to post Share on other sites
Fallen_Angel Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by outdated Well I was going out anyhow, so like they say: why not go out with a bang? Well, I have to admit I was a bit surprised by this...but yeah, if you don't want her back, then the hell with it. There's a reason why it's said that the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else! Link to post Share on other sites
Author outdated Posted May 25, 2005 Author Share Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by Fallen_Angel Well, I have to admit I was a bit surprised by this...but yeah, if you don't want her back, then the hell with it. There's a reason why it's said that the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else! I know FA- I'm sure I've lost a bit of respect with the romantics in the house, but I gotta tell you, I am so tired of her making me feel like s**t. I don't deserve that, and maybe now she'll understand the possible repercussions of how she treats people in future relationships. I wasn't trying to teach her a lesson at first, I just wanted to get laid and her friend was there and eager. Can't we all just get along? My ex coulda joined too, it was her decision to stay away. Link to post Share on other sites
Good Seed Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 What if you still wanted her back? In a sick kinda way, she might want you back after competition of her best friend has rolled in..... GS Link to post Share on other sites
Author outdated Posted May 25, 2005 Author Share Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by Good Seed What if you still wanted her back? In a sick kinda way, she might want you back after competition of her best friend has rolled in..... GS I hadn't thought of that angle, but I don't want her back anymore. She's too far gone. Link to post Share on other sites
Good Seed Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 Who broke up with who in this relationship and has she cheated on you in the past? Reason I am asking is because I am facing a similar delema..... Also, I hope her best friend realizes that its just sex and nothing more.... GS Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 Wierd how sometimes you know when one or more of your EXs Friends liked you in that way EVEN when you were still with thier "Friend" ie: Your EX and the thought probably never crossed your mind that you'd actually hook up with them at some time... THEN next thing ya know... Link to post Share on other sites
Author outdated Posted May 25, 2005 Author Share Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by Good Seed Who broke up with who in this relationship and has she cheated on you in the past? Reason I am asking is because I am facing a similar delema..... Also, I hope her best friend realizes that its just sex and nothing more.... GS She left me about three mos ago. She never cheated on me, nor I on her. Never even considered it. Maybe she considered it, and since she is supposedly with someone new, although she texts me at one in the morning all the time , she broke it off before she did anything I would assume. Her friend knows it's just sex. What is your dilemma GS? Link to post Share on other sites
Author outdated Posted May 25, 2005 Author Share Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by Merin Wierd how sometimes you know when one or more of your EXs Friends liked you in that way EVEN when you were still with thier "Friend" ie: Your EX and the thought probably never crossed your mind that you'd actually hook up with them at some time... THEN next thing ya know... I didn't even consider it until it was already happening Link to post Share on other sites
Good Seed Posted May 25, 2005 Share Posted May 25, 2005 Delema is quite simple. EX broke it off with me and started NC. This is a very strange according to everything I have read on LS. She changed her number and blocked me from im although I haven't done anything for her to over react like that. Wrote her a nice letter telling her that we should try to work things out but no response. I never thought her old best friend would come onto me but she did and boy did she come on strong. I kinda felt bad because in the back of my mind I actually kept telling myself that she might come back into my life one day although I know she is just running from the problem at hand etc. Should I bang the friend (pardon my french) or end the night of us fooling around at that? GS Link to post Share on other sites
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