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sandylee1

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Forget the remaining money and block her. Although in my younger days I'd be very tempted to say 'good luck, you need all the help you can get ' - then I'd block her.

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I had to contact her because the money. I really needed that 100 euros back. That is too much money just to give to her.

 

I need to go underground with her. She wants to be my friend i guess, just now she sent me "g'night" message, and i haven't sent her anything this evening.

 

I even forced myself not to say anything nice about her selfies...

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Well she sounds like a real piece of work. She's either legitimately crazy to be sending you that ****, or just a bitch. Probably the former.

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mightycpa

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If it were me....

 

How come you're sending me pictures of you that you had to take by yourself? You can't even find somebody to take one for you? I believe you haven't had sex in two months. Wish I could say the same. Don't worry, maybe one of these handsome guys will actually talk to you one day! Wear something slutty when you go out. That might help.
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I think i really need to block her now.

 

She sent me a picture where she just has a top and sweatpants on. "Have i lost weight?"

 

Jesus. She must have some issues.

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Seth0194

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Either she feels like she is getting you back for something, or she just gets off on messing with you.

 

As others have said, block here and got straight NC no matter what.

 

I have lost almost a 1000.00 with my break up, but NC has saved my sanity.

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thejabberwocky

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I think i really need to block her now.

 

She sent me a picture where she just has a top and sweatpants on. "Have i lost weight?"

 

Jesus. She must have some issues.

 

At this point, you're looking like the one with issues. She is clearly messing with you, and you're letting her. GO NC.

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Luke22

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If scenario owes you 20, let it go. It's not worth the grief. Given the cruelty of the text message, you may want to block her. If you don't, she could text you something equally hurtful that would pull you down and ruin your day.

 

There's no excuse for that behavior.

 

Turn your attention to yourself and try not to waste valuable time trying to figure her out or wonder what's she's doing. Start the process of letting go and healing yourself.

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Dutchman1

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Hey Protec,

 

 

I think you have two choices,

 

 

1. Block an ignore all. and take the high road.( this is best)

2. You could sent: I KNOW THAT YOU NEVER ENJOIED SEX WITH ME BECAUSE YOU ARE FRIGID, THE TWO WOMAN I SEE NOW WAKE THE NEIGHBORS OP, AND RUINED THE SEELING BY THEIR SQUIRTING.

 

 

I would go for one, but be really anxious to see the reply on nr 2.

 

 

What a ( sukkel = dutch) loser she is.

 

 

Just laugh an have a happy life, you will, nothing in your life after this can or will be this dumb.

 

 

Take care.

 

 

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Don't send a single thing OP. Remove this person from your life and don't look back.

 

I didn't send anything after thursday to her and boom, i got suddenly a picture of her in a bar at friday. She actually begged to talk with me friday day. "Oh it's raining...i wonder if we can stay dry when we go out today..." I did not answer her. Then after a while: "Myname?"

 

Saturday morning, she tried to call me. I did not answer. I was "busy".

Then my whatsapp started singing "oh i have hangover from yesterday..."

Well, today she called me again while i was out for a walk.

I answered. We talked for 30 minutes!

 

Meanwhile i learned,

 

-She thinks young Pierce Brosnan is hot. Well, i agree. He is handsome.

-She hates me

-i disgust her (She said : you disgust me)

-i am too calm person to be with her (she is a party monster and social...now)

-She never knew how to be herself around me (blaming me again)

-I asked her to come over (She:"why should i?"). I said that "you could look your things over and take back what you need." "i just really don't want to see you...you disgust me." Then after a while "If i come, will you buy me a dinner? Let's go to the chinese place where we ate." I said yeah. I just want her to get her stuff out of here.

-Her life is PERFECT now.

-She was suffering from hangover.

-She was out, partying again.

-And some of her "boyfriends" changed her lightbulb. Wow. Should i be jealous of that? :D

 

STILL!

 

Still SHE calls ME.

If I disgust her so much, she hates me so much...why on earth would you call to a person you hate so much? And why on earth would you talk with such person for 30 minutes?

 

I don't call anyone if i don't want to talk with them. I don't call for no reason. To anyone.

 

This week, she has called me via skype (talked 1 hour video chat)

We have talked in phone for 2 hours

She asked me to talk in skype (via text)

 

To me it feels like she is forcing herself to hate me.

I wouldn't be surprised if she blocks me from whatsapp again or skype.

 

Oh yeah, and thursday she sent me porn links via Skype :D

"I am so horny", she said again.

 

If she is going to visit me, she said beginning of next month. I have about 2 weeks to get myself in AWESOME shape. She will see what she lost. I'm gonna be just like i was when i first met her.

 

And when she has gotten her stuff out from my place. It's time to finally say goodbye to her.

 

She blames me for EVERYTHING. She doesn't see any faults in herself. I did my best in the relationship.

 

Why did i even answer her? She just makes me feel bad. I think she is angry at me because she still maybe in someway, misses me. And that makes her furious.

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thunder777

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something from the no contact guide...

 

Q. My ex keeps texting me, and nothing seems to put them off. What do I do about this?

A. First of all, delete their number and block it.

Then the next time they text you, reply IMMEDIATELY - with this message:

 

"Your message could not be delivered because the recipient has blocked this number."

 

Do this every single time they try to text you.

(Blocking/deleting numbers prevents calls, but doesn't always prevent texts.)

Pretty soon, they should give up.

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mightycpa

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Your ex has been ****ing with your head from Day 1. Your whole relationship with a never-ending dynamic of her pushing your buttons. Why, as a 30 year old man, you put up with this ****, I have no idea.

 

I mean seriously. What, do you love her for the fascinating conversations you two have? Because she's done so many things in her life and she has all this wisdom? Is she accomplished in some way that you're leaving out? Or maybe you just love the abuse deep down inside. Or maybe it is just pussy.

 

I don't know, but most guys your age would have told this girl to **** off a long time ago without any problem whatsoever. You really need to look inside and get to the bottom of this. All of your problems stem from you, not her.

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You are behaving pathetically and if you don't change your mindset, value system and attitude you will never have a healthy relationship with a woman who respects you and looks up to you as a man. You are literally allowing this idiotic girl to use you as a garbage can. Please give yourself a hard going-over and take control of your life. This comes through realizing you are in fact a man.

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OP, block her everywhere! Problem solved. If you don't do it then don't come whining here when she contacts you again.

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Still SHE calls ME.

If I disgust her so much, she hates me so much...why on earth would you call to a person you hate so much? And why on earth would you talk with such person for 30 minutes?

 

I don't call anyone if i don't want to talk with them. I don't call for no reason. To anyone.

Is this a serious question?

 

She wants you to respond as your reaction means a lot to her. Better date someone more your age as she sounds really immature.

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I didn't send anything after thursday to her and boom, i got suddenly a picture of her in a bar at friday. She actually begged to talk with me friday day. "Oh it's raining...i wonder if we can stay dry when we go out today..." I did not answer her. Then after a while: "Myname?"

 

Saturday morning, she tried to call me. I did not answer. I was "busy".

Then my whatsapp started singing "oh i have hangover from yesterday..."

Well, today she called me again while i was out for a walk.

I answered. We talked for 30 minutes!

 

Meanwhile i learned,

 

-She thinks young Pierce Brosnan is hot. Well, i agree. He is handsome.

-She hates me

-i disgust her (She said : you disgust me)

-i am too calm person to be with her (she is a party monster and social...now)

-She never knew how to be herself around me (blaming me again)

-I asked her to come over (She:"why should i?"). I said that "you could look your things over and take back what you need." "i just really don't want to see you...you disgust me." Then after a while "If i come, will you buy me a dinner? Let's go to the chinese place where we ate." I said yeah. I just want her to get her stuff out of here.

-Her life is PERFECT now.

-She was suffering from hangover.

-She was out, partying again.

-And some of her "boyfriends" changed her lightbulb. Wow. Should i be jealous of that? :D

 

STILL!

 

Still SHE calls ME.

If I disgust her so much, she hates me so much...why on earth would you call to a person you hate so much? And why on earth would you talk with such person for 30 minutes?

 

I don't call anyone if i don't want to talk with them. I don't call for no reason. To anyone.

 

This week, she has called me via skype (talked 1 hour video chat)

We have talked in phone for 2 hours

She asked me to talk in skype (via text)

 

To me it feels like she is forcing herself to hate me.

I wouldn't be surprised if she blocks me from whatsapp again or skype.

 

Oh yeah, and thursday she sent me porn links via Skype :D

"I am so horny", she said again.

 

If she is going to visit me, she said beginning of next month. I have about 2 weeks to get myself in AWESOME shape. She will see what she lost. I'm gonna be just like i was when i first met her.

 

And when she has gotten her stuff out from my place. It's time to finally say goodbye to her.

 

She blames me for EVERYTHING. She doesn't see any faults in herself. I did my best in the relationship.

 

Why did i even answer her? She just makes me feel bad. I think she is angry at me because she still maybe in someway, misses me. And that makes her furious.

 

 

Dude this is classic!!!!

 

i say propose to her as she is quite clearly marriage material

 

Keep the updates please this is hilarious

 

:laugh:

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Dude this is classic!!!!

 

i say propose to her as she is quite clearly marriage material

 

Keep the updates please this is hilarious

 

:laugh:

 

Well, this is movie material i tell you. I am not even making this up.

But i realised, that i got close. She talked with me a lot after i took my little NC. After that she talked with me like we were together again. In skype, whatsapp, phone...we talked a lot. She clearly missed me.

 

But today again, i tried to initiate talking with her, she got mad.

 

I think i pushed too far. I should've stopped when i was still winning.

 

But good news, i am having a sushi dinner later this week with a match i got from Tinder.

Nothing serious, just going to meet new people :)

 

I feel bad, but still good :)

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Diezel

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Hey, STOP TALKING TO HER.

 

And block her.

 

How is that so difficult to understand? It's not like other people haven't said it to you before.

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HereNorThere

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I think it's safe to say at this point you are addicted to the drama. In some weird, sadistic way, you seem to enjoy what this woman is doing to you. A lot of people say that the emotional rollercoaster is addictive and this seems to prove that.

 

When you're dealing with an emotional unstable person like this, you have tendency to start mirroring their behavior. You don't want to end up like her, do you?

 

You control whether or not she text or calls you. There's a million and one ways to block a number, but you secretly feed off the drama and don't want that. When you decide you want off the roller coaster, you'll get off. Until then, enjoy the ride.

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Itspointless

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Well, this is movie material i tell you. I am not even making this up.

No it isn't, you are falling for her silly games. You weren't winning at any point she is, as she enjoys the power over you.

But good news, i am having a sushi dinner later this week with a match i got from Tinder.

Nothing serious, just going to meet new people :)

 

I feel bad, but still good :)

Of-course, we are mess but we want to date. Why not stick with friends for now? Other people only distract the focus for a short while.

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