nici24cali Posted May 26, 2005 Share Posted May 26, 2005 Ok here it is... Ive had a guy friend for years, and yes we have always been great friends, we use to work in the same store different departments. thats how we met, well we always hung out and had fun together. I hung out with his family a few times(i have issues and dont usually bring guys to meet my family if we arent dating) when we first hung out alot, then we both got into relationships, all of which had failed, my relationship was for 5 years his was a few realtionships in the 5 years and he had gotten married over a year ago and he is now divorced, but during the time he was married he wasnt alloud to speak to me because his wife said so.... OK so 2 weeks ago he and i ended up sleeping together, i was wierded out but he didnt seem to be.anyways he called me the next day and we hung out again but he didnt spend the night. and we havent spent the night at all since then, but here is where it gets kinda odd to me, we have spent every day together since then, my grandmother had a stroke a week ago and the day it happened he rushed to the hospital to see me and make sure i was ok, he then spent the next week there at the hospital with me, he brought my family food to snack on and magazines and card games to keep us busy while we were there, my birthday was spent in the hospital waiting room he and his daughter brought me a gift and a cake and made it a nice birthday for me. then my grandmother came home and he came with me to see her at home and its just amazing to me that he has been so great. he has been there everyday for me and we havent been apart at all, but is it normal to be that way with a girl who is just your friend or is there something more to it than that?.. My family adores him and his daughter and he loves my family. i adore him now more than ever for being there for me in such a time i needed a shoulder to cry on. ..so what do you guys think? Link to post Share on other sites
Marshbear Posted May 26, 2005 Share Posted May 26, 2005 What are you waiting for? He sounds like the perfect guy so are you going to let him get away? Tell him you want to be is G/F. Is it weird for him to be such a good friend and be there for you? No! He obviously cares for you a great deal and you sound like you feel the same. So hook-up and be together. Peace... Link to post Share on other sites
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